Tinder and Match are trash

Sudo3301 · 2017-07-25T22:21:58+00:00

If the online dating game isn't working for you then you are going to have to go out in the real world and meet women. Plain as that.

Tar-Minastir · 2017-07-25T23:37:40+00:00

I spin at least a few 8/9s from Tinder at any given time living in a major city. All successful are nurses, doctors, lawyers, accountants etc living stbale lives. Never ever had to dip for low quality or single moms.

You are doing it wrong my friend.

DadOnDabs · 2017-07-25T23:30:36+00:00

Honestly day game meets are the best fucks / relationships out of all of them. There's just more of a realness to it. Learn some day game and have fun.

oldredder · 2017-07-26T04:32:15+00:00

I've also heard it's mostly trash. The women who can't get enough dates in person are not good in looks or personality and they go for online. Or they troll online dating men to get free dinners while meeting Chads in person and just fuck them with no dates.

I don't do daygaming I feel like its 20x more difficult getting dates that way

honestly I find the opposite for men

and besides, I don't like talking to strangers out and about (especially women).

well that's just a failure. I have REASONS not to at specific times like I'm overloaded carrying stuff or in a rush to a specific location, doing groceries, etc., but I'm not by default avoiding conversation with hot women. By all means I'll spark it up any opportunity.

Its like I can't find someone to enjoy my time with smh

turns out that's not what most women are for and it turns out most women are turned off by a man who wants that because most of them are also weak.

Frigzy · 2017-07-26T08:58:03+00:00

Yes, tinder chicks are usually shit, because for women it's a different ballgame. It's impossible to be attractive and fun to be around and not get proposals or attention 24/7. For a guy, it's easy enough by not just going out often. As a result you can be a perfectly legitimate dude on tinder and find plenty of damaged goods.

In most cases, there is a very good reason why girls are on there. A reason you would spot in a second in person, but is quite hard to spot online. THAT is why they are on there. It gives them a chance they normally wouldn't get.

However, at the same time, plenty of dudes on tinder are simply sex hungry guys who are also not that attractive or succesful in real life. Sure, they can be average or slightly above, but nothing special. And being sex depraved and active on tinder definitely does not play in their favor. Fact is, most of the guys on tinder are like this and the girls know it.

Both parties end up looking for someone that is very unlikely to be on tinder in the first place. Someone who looks good, is fun to be around and just gets it overall.

You've gotten exactly what you can expect from tinder, some dates and some pussy. And you probably invested quite a lot of time and effort into it if you look at it. I've been there too.

But now you want more. Sure. Why not. But then when people tell you to do the work (learn daygame) you pussy out like a little bitch. This is huge red flag if I was looking at you from a girls perspective. You want something but you don't want to do the natural effort that it requires from you.

THEN FUCKING DROWN IN TINDER GARBAGE.

That's your other option. Enjoy life bro. Peace.

VforVelocity · 2017-07-25T22:26:55+00:00

what are you expecting to find a wife off of tinder? come on man, dating services like that are for plates, 95% of the girls on there are trash like you said. You shouldn't be expecting more.

Also you're expecting quality when you go on dates with at the wall 29 year old single mothers? wtf OP obviously she's trash...

You either need to be more selective with who you're going with on dates or you need to get over your fear of gaming women in person, there is literally zero risk I don't know what you're talking about, you might get rejected big deal, go approach the next girl 10 feet away and try again.

Lastly "I can't find the someone to enjoy my time with" is a major problem, you should be enjoying your time on your own, the fact that you're looking for a women to make your time enjoyable is a major issue that you need to fix asap

Title	Tinder and Match are trash
Author	NewTRPGuy
Upvotes	1
Comments	26
Date	July 25, 2017 10:07 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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