Woman admits to national advice columnist that she cheated on husband and got pregnant with another man's baby and doesn't want to tell the husband. Asks Amy for advice.

civilsaint · 2016-05-14T16:06:11+00:00

At the hotel I had a massage and was seduced by the masseur. I tried to resist, but I guess I got carried away. I sort of cooperated once things got started.

Sure, make it sound like rape, adulterer.

I can't tell my husband; I think that he would leave me. It's too late for an abortion. What can I do? Please advise me.

Here's your advice...OWN UP TO YOUR MISTAKES!!! Not only did you cheat on him and get pregnant, now you are trying to deceive him.

My god what a horrible person.

The only decent thing you can do at this point is break it off because life with you will only be misery. And don't take ANYTHING with you...if you truly feel remorse, which you don't, you are only concerned about yourself.

EDIT: And the response is even sicker.

It sounds like assault.

No. It sounds like she was willing and now regrets it. This shit makes me sick. Grow the fuck up and own the consequences of your actions.

Obviously she wasn't wearing a condom and possibly subjected her husband to an STD. But that doesn't matter.

aegorrivers · 2016-05-14T15:38:22+00:00

Sorry, meant to also add that apparently it's the other man's fault and not her's.

Nevek_Green · 2016-05-14T21:23:15+00:00

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cld8 · 2016-05-14T21:50:22+00:00

I'm a bit disturbed that she says she was seduced, but Amy tries to put it into her head that she was coerced and possibly assaulted.

The rest of the advice is good.

2016-05-14T23:47:43+00:00

Bullshit. I looked at going to massage school when I was young, and was constantly told that men who go into massage school are only out to grope women and would constantly be watched and monitored.

If this was a fancy hotel with a masseur, then there's a 99% chance she started giving him signals that it was okay to proceed, and then perhaps escalated. Unless this is just an elaborate ruse for her sneaking off with someone she met at a bar.

Mik3ze · 2016-05-15T02:12:28+00:00

That is not being assaulted. She says she was "seduced" that means that she was won over by his advances.

2016-05-15T20:23:19+00:00

That is going to be a conversation that goes something like "I was raped when I was on vacation by the masseuse and it's his baby. I didn't tell you because I was scared, please don't leave me."

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