What can the average guy do to make false rape accusations impossible?

oshout · 2015-12-05T03:05:45+00:00

Impossible? Cut off your arms, legs, penis, nose, tongue and potentially lower jaw.

Improbable? star in gay porn.

Realistically? Get to know the person before you sleep with them to make sure they're not crazy or drama.

senor_papaya · 2015-12-05T05:03:12+00:00

Mgtow

_77mynor · 2015-12-05T04:03:48+00:00

Under yes means yes? And assuming you still want to have sex? Nothing. You could literally wear a camera 24-7 and it wouldn't matter. The recording would simply reveal that you didn't ask permission for every single micro-escalation of the sexual encounter.

The camera could however prevent a false accusation from someone you didn't sleep with. There was a case recently of two college girls accusing a cab driver of rape after they failed to pay him. He was only saved by his interior camera.

Prostitutes are no guarantee either (see Duke Lacross).

Unfortunately we are living through one of those periodic cultural hysterias like the witch hunt and the red scare. A whole lot of lives are going to be ruined before the feminist leviathan is struck down.

aokusman · 2015-12-05T05:11:54+00:00

Have boring sex. Do not take hers or your own clothes off. Let her do everything. Let's her be on top. Just tell her what to do and don't do anything yourself.

andejoh · 2015-12-05T14:30:04+00:00

There is nothing you can do. Ask Jonathan Montgomery. There doesn't need to be any proof to convict you.

garglemesh42 · 2015-12-05T15:41:23+00:00

We live in a world where even being celibate isn't a defense - a woman that you've never even touched (or a woman you don't even know!) can make a false accusation against you and ruin your life. How can you prove you didn't do it? (Of course, a man could make a false rape accusation, too, but everybody here knows that nobody would give a shit if he did, because nobody really cares when men are actually raped, either.)

You could try to record everything time and date stamped, 24/7 and retain the recordings indefinitely. Good luck with that. Your employer probably won't allow it, it might be illegal in your state, you'd need to make sure you never, ever run out of battery power on your recording device, and you'd need to have enough storage space to store backups of all that data indefinitely. You could just record the audio, but good luck proving you didn't quietly sneak out of your bedroom in the middle of the night! Also, you'd probably want an IR camera trained on you when you're sleeping with the lights off. 24/7 time and date stamped video, combined with celibacy should be enough, as long as you can prove that you didn't doctor the video. ... which is an interesting problem in and of itself. The celibacy part is important, too, because even if you record yourself having sex with someone and are very sure to ask for consent at every step of the process, the cameras may not catch everything. For instance, say you have consensual sex that was recorded, then you pull up the sheets and both go to sleep. She could accuse you of fingering her without her consent underneath the covers, and what good is your video evidence then? Maybe IR video could help, but I doubt it. After all, you'd still be sleeping right next to each other. It'd be hard to tell if anything happened.

Unfortunately, it is the only way to prove you didn't do something. This is why "guilty until proven innocent" is such a terrible thing. While our justice system is supposed to operate on the principle of "innocent until proven guilty", the media and general public are under no such obligation, and the media love stories like this. They drive clicks and page views. As long as they're careful enough to use that all-important word "alleged", they can paint as awful a picture of you as they want without really needing to worry about libel or slander lawsuits.

Or you could do like /u/oshout suggested and cut off your arms, legs, penis, nose, tongue, and lower jaw, because as long as you have body parts that are capable of touching other people sexually without their consent, you could be considered capable of committing the crime. Even that may not be enough, given the current progress in artificial limbs (because then you have to prove you don't have one of those hiding around somewhere).

DavidByron2 · 2015-12-05T03:29:37+00:00

Accuse a college woman of rape.

unpicked-username · 2015-12-05T07:40:55+00:00

In a perfect world, men shouldnt have to worry, as only a very small percentage of men and women are rapists. False Accusations ideally wouldnt exist

192873982 · 2015-12-05T13:24:29+00:00

That's a stupid question.

What can you do to make any kind of false accusation impossible? Nothing, that's not a thing that should be possible.

The problem of false rape accusations is that they can have real effects, because of the "guilty until proven innocent" thing.

Now what can you do despite this fucked up legal situation? Not much. Filming your surroundings all the time is probably illegal in most countries. The only thing you can do is to lower the risk of false rape claims, by only really socialize with women you trust enough.

Christtomato · 2015-12-06T09:22:27+00:00

Have a contact ready

KamiNekoSama · 2015-12-06T14:31:00+00:00

Ultimate there is little you can do. If you come across a woman that is spiteful enough to hit you with a false rape claim she is going to do it. There are a few things you can do that may help prove your innocence. Save your receipts, this way you have a paper trail of your when and where you are. It is kind of hard to someone when you are not where they said the rape happened ane a receipt can be proof of that. Always be recording. This one can be a tough one as each state laws vary. Some states require two party consent while others only require one party consent. So check your local laws. Even if it is a two party consent system it might be better to get in trouble for illegally recording someone than to face a rape charge.

Title	What can the average guy do to make false rape accusations impossible?
Author	OutofPlaceOneLiner
Upvotes	11
Comments	16
Date	December 5, 2015 2:48 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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