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Why do girls ghost after having a ONS?

CashMeOnRedditDD

May 10, 2018
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Title Why do girls ghost after having a ONS?
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CashMeOnRedditDD

Upvotes 4
Comments 15
Date May 10, 2018 2:02 AM UTC
(8 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8ibgbc/why_do_girls_ghost_after_having_a_ons/
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Comments

[–]chomponthebit32 points33 points34 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Hamstering: “I am not a slut/but I banged that random last night/if I don’t see him again I won’t be reminded I’m a slut - which I’m not/don’t answer that text”

Alternatively, you may be a terrible lay

[–]CashMeOnRedditDD 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I was thinking that but I don’t think she faked her orgasm and said “wow you actually made me sore”. I’m just going to stop altogether about plating women until a few encounters

[–]neverquitman0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Serious stuff

[–]Ricky4692 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

If they ghost it's probably fear of being labeled a slut or they didn't like you. Be patient often they will call again. I have girls that contact me randomly every month or so just to bang. I'm older have my own place and they don't fear me blabbing to they'd friends or social group. Social media and constant texting make women reluctant to be overt. If they know you can keep your mouth shut you'll get ONS or FWBs more.

[–]fnordsnord 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

The same reason guys do: you were attractive enough for sex, but not what she's looking for for long term.

Congratulations: you were used for sex. Weird feeling, isn't it.

Not Mr. Right, just Mr. Right now.

[–]CashMeOnRedditDD 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Is it the right mindset to just ghost all ONS from now on?

[–]fnordsnord5 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Not as a matter of policy. You might can plate some of them. Hell, my marriage started as a "spring break" girl.

[–]omega_dawg932 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

this is actually very hard for some men to accept.

women hunt dick and go sport fucking too. sometimes they just wanna get laid with no strings and move on.

they're human... selfish just like any other human.

[–]justtenofusinhere11 points12 points13 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Believe it or not, a lot of girls do it so you won't "count." If you two aren't serious then what you two did together isn't serious and since sex is serious but what you two did was not serious, then you couldn''t have had sex because sex is seroius, but you two weren't. Common, it's that simple.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Wait. What?

[–]zboo1h8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Female rationale. Don't ask why, or what.

[–]omega_dawg935 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"it didn't count" is REAL in the minds of females.

if you can't grasp the concept that they can block undesirable acts out of their minds, you need to leave them alone.

if they don't accept it happened, they don't have a need to talk about it... and since they don't talk about it, they don't have negative feelings about it.

now all is well with their emotional state.

[–]zboo1h1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Who cares?

I remember one time it happened to me. Gorgeous girl, came over the same night I met her. Very well-to-do family obviously, nice clothes. Some of the best tits I've ever sucked. But halfway through sex she stopped me and started to leave. She stopped and we finished, but that stopping told me something very loudly: she was somewhat uncomfortable with what she was doing. We had some comfort cuddles and she left the next day after I nutted on her ass. Sent her a message the next day she replied positively. Never heard from her again. Such nice tits.

[–]MindFuktd0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hahaha, I feel you, man!

[–]EhzmwGGh0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I guess that's why they call it one night stand and not multiple nights stand or what ever.

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