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So I was made aware that the mens hotlines are actually to seek help if you are the abuser, not the one being abused, now I'm not so proud of the local football club. These were hanging up behind the doors of the female toilets.

beetlejuice8

August 2, 2015
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Title So I was made aware that the mens hotlines are actually to seek help if you are the abuser, not the one being abused, now I'm not so proud of the local football club. These were hanging up behind the doors of the female toilets.
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beetlejuice8

Upvotes 209
Comments 12
Date August 2, 2015 12:59 AM UTC
(10 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/3fgpno/so_i_was_made_aware_that_the_mens_hotlines_are/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/so-i-was-made-aware-that-the-mens-hotlines-are.974194
https://theredarchive.com/post/974194
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Comments

[–]jimmywiddle 17 points18 points19 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I would complain, failing that remove them. If this is Australia I thought it was well known that 1 in 3 domestic violence victims is a male.

[–]rbrockway 9 points10 points11 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

We certainly have an organisation that is getting the message out there.

Unfortunately it is still not well known or well accepted :(

[–]lacheln 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Look up! Space is cool! :)

[–]ThePigmanAgain 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If this is Australia I thought it was well known that 1 in 3 domestic violence victims is a male.

Not outside of MRA circles it isn't. In most of the media it's the old crap about male oppression.

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[–]ElfmanLV 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Cuckoo's Nest too. shudders

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It may be worth checking ... well, asking a male friend to check the male toilets and see if it's there is one, and if so, if it is the same (in which case there is a problem), or if it may be gender specific, such that the men's room has different information. I'm not exactly holding my breath, but more information is always better.

It's always possible that they may not think it is appropriate to advertise help lines or groups for male victims in the female toilets.

[–]NibblyPig 6 points7 points8 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I see some sense in this, but I'd also argue that half the problem is perpetuating the stereotype that men are the abusers and women are the victims. Most people reading that will not be subject to domestic violence, and it gives them the wrong impression.

[–]Dann01 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I grew up in Warragul, Gippsland. The fact that this attitude is so close to home scares me a little

[–]ZimbaZumba 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Complain to the football club.

[–]belil569 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't know where you're from but our lines are for the abused.

[–]rocelot7 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I say we riot!

stop acting like we don't have a reason too.

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