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A so-called men's center offers treatment for men as abusers but nothing for male victims of intimate partner violence?

NotMyTypesType

June 25, 2015
101 upvotes
/r/MensRights
http://menscenter.org/counseling-services/mens-support-groups/
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Title A so-called men's center offers treatment for men as abusers but nothing for male victims of intimate partner violence?
Author

NotMyTypesType

Upvotes 101
Comments 12
Date June 25, 2015 4:28 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/3b3751/a_socalled_mens_center_offers_treatment_for_men/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/a-so-called-mens-center-offers-treatment-for-men.976756
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Comments

[–]AvgGuy101 21 points22 points23 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Absolutely disgusting! I can just imagine what the therapy sessions must be like... if you are a male then it is all your fault, stop whining and man up, etc.

Sounds like something that Dr. Phil would be involved with.

[–]dontpet 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've known of anger management groups where the guys felt really cared for and others where it was the equivalent of are education camp. I can't tell what the guys would be from this info so I cut them slack. They have an assessment tool for male victims that I thought looked very insightful at http://menscenter.org/self-assessments/. While it's good to criticize I'm really glad that someone is taking care of the guys.

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Your title only goes at a part of the issue. Just look at all the "services".

Anger Management Support Group Men who have difficulty controlling their anger and whose rage has resulted in family problems, job difficulties, violence and legal problems can benefit from this group.

Domestic Violence Support Group Designed to help men who struggle with abusive, controlling, and angry behavior toward their domestic partners.

Intimate Connections: A Program for Partners of Sex Addicts Support and counseling for partners of sex addicts.

Men’s Psychotherapy Group This group helps men begin to understand, heal, and manage deeper emotional, relational, and character issues with the support of other invested men.

Nurturing Dads Support Group A parenting program providing relationship help for men by teaching them skills to be firm but loving fathers.

Sex Addiction Treatment A comprehensive sex addiction program providing help for pornography and sex addiction in a supportive group setting.

Substance Abuse Support Group Teaches the basics of addiction, relapse prevention, and recovery helping men break out of shame, addictive patterns, and isolation.

  • See more at: http://menscenter.org/counseling-services/mens-support-groups/#sthash.nfOVBKKq.dpuf

I have no problem with rehabilitating people with problems,

but the fact that there's hardly any victim services is an example of how FUCKING BLATANT MISANDRY IN OUR SOCIETY IS

[–]kragshot 13 points14 points15 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You should write them and ask if they provide services for men who are victims of DV/IPV and see what they say.

[–]Greg_W_Allan 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They do...

http://menscenter.org/issues-that-affect-men/sexual-abuse-trauma/

That said - and having had a bit to do with male victims over the years - I would do anything to prevent such victims from going anywhere near them.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the domestic violence center in my city, same thing:

http://hiatushouse.com/

[–]azazelcrowley 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a fairly common problem. It's also a means by which some organizations seek to entrap men who call them for help.

"Domestic violence line for men" and such, where their operators will continually try to get the man to admit they are abusive and dismiss claims they are being abused. One such example is in australia, we had an action-op about it a while back.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

As a male survivor of domestic abuse, I find this 'center' truly and deeply offensive.

[–]mikesteane 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

There is a "contact us" button. Use it to tell them they are part of the problem rather than the solution when this is the sort of thing they do.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You have to use your name and email address ... I'd rather not put my dirty laundry in the street like that.

[–]rg57 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And yet, someone has to.

[–]MonkeyCB 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That would mean there's a perpetrator, and you can't hold women responsible for their actions.

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