Church game?

Big_Red_suppository · 2018-05-22T19:00:19+00:00

I use to moonlight as a musician in churches, I've seen plenty so I'll give you my two cents. I've seen a ton of single guys show up and you can tell they're just looking for a chick cause they're kinda lame and dont have real hobbies or a social life, it doesnt work out for them. This kind of applies to anything, dont take a cooking class to meet chicks, be there cause you want to cook. If you go to church plan on getting really involved in the community. You aren't going to fool anyone, if I can smell youre just looking for love the chicks definitely can. Also, AWALT. There's a small percentage of the "good Christian girl". They're boring and they wont settle for some guy that just shows up, back to my first point. These chicks are basically looking for a clone of their dad, I can't speak to what they do on Friday night but they aren't bringing that behavior into the house of god.

Tldr get real hobbies.

RogerNorvell · 2018-05-22T18:26:16+00:00

Church girls are used to being on their knees, praying.

Scotty doesn't know

RunawayGrain · 2018-05-22T18:47:08+00:00

Ok it’s a bit of a reach for the TRP crowd I know, but I was wondering if there are any opinions about going to church to find a girl that has some moral fiber and would be good with a traditional view on relationships

I attend church. Mostly you're barking up the wrong tree.

Recently one girl in our church got her self made porn from her phone all over her dad's computer. He happened to work under me, and got his ass fired because he got the cops involved. Lot's of drama ensued because she was in the sack with another girl from church and Chad all at once. Two girls families trying to shift blame onto each other is quite a sight to see.

Both of the girls in question grew up in the church, are in their later teens, and could pass as having 'substance' in a conversation. Most of your church guys nowadays won't touch the girls in the church because, as a close knit community, they've all heard all about these girls exploits.

You might want to hit up Dalrock.

tempusers · 2018-05-22T19:57:09+00:00

Long post ahead:
I'm going to throw in my ~~2cents~~ $5 from growing up in the church.
Church women are very much like other women. And can be divided into 2 groups. Low self esteem who also believe the bible and are on the poor financial end of the spectrum who will marry for love, but these are few and far between and not in city churches for the most part.
Then there are high self esteem church girls, with good families, who know the game, and follow it with higher expectations because they have been raised in the church with a strong male figure and expect more substance from you to have a higher smv and game.
You have to be on point and be on your best self to attract these girls, exhibit financial independence, exhibit strength and protection, but you have to also apply a desire and kiss them first, and do it within the first 3 dates.
They may take longer to bed, but at the base they still operate like a woman with physical desires that need to be fulfilled before you miss your chance.
They want to be kissed, that want to have sex, and they are almost always not waiting until marriage. They are just better at being discreet about it. These are not bar sluts, they take a high value approach, full of real confidence.
If this sounds familiar, it's because I'm currently reading "Models" by Mark Manson, and it seems like a blueprint for how to be a better man and get both more and higher quality women in your life.
So yeah, most church girls are not easy, but they want it, and will have higher expectations of protector and provider, without trying to come across as gold digger. And/but if you are confident in telling a woman no, or telling her strongly and sternly what you expect, there is a chance a church girl will be more responsive to that and change that behavior to make you happy if you have become the confident actualized man in her eyes that she wants.
So a lot of this applies to many/every woman (AWALT), but I've actually seen it more in church girls that there is a definite need to be a real status and high value man, not spitting game, or using pickup tricks, etc.
Edit: as Big_Red_suppository said here be real, have a real life and hobbies. If you are going to church, you do it for you and your own spiritual well being, or real desire to help others. No faking it in that environment.
Then be awake and ready to make a move and take action because they despise the cowards who don't touch them physically when they finally give them a chance. So... small window there. (learned this one the hard way in church a few times)
Edit Edit: this is all anecdotal from the southeast united states, suburban church girls.

thePloweHorse · 2018-05-22T20:09:43+00:00

Church girls go there mainly because they want to keep up their innocent appearance.

Most church girls if they go there to meet someone they're out fishing for a simp, because they think Godly men are naive.

They're the most dangerous.

What you want is to find a girl with the least amount of red flags(preferably 0).

DieMeinung · 2018-05-22T21:07:46+00:00

There are church girls and then there are church girls. Women are the same all over, church girls aren't a special type of woman.

Half the girls only go to church because it pleases mom and dad; they're sleeping around without guilt.

Then there are church girls who are believers; they'll sleep around but might feel guilty about it, or they might think you're spiritually married if you sleep together.

Then there are the church girls who actually do suppress their natural instinct to want to sleep around, and are looking for a guy who similarly suppressed his natural desires to sleep around.

I grew up in a church environment. I personally think it's a shitty thing to do to infiltrate a church group with the purpose of scoring pussy. But if you are truly interested in the mission of the church, and can square that with casual sex (not possible with all church groups), go for it. You might even find a unicorn.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-05-22T21:13:34+00:00

Lots of folks go to church on Sunday morning to get forgiven for shit they day on Saturday night.

chomponthebit · 2018-05-22T18:13:47+00:00

If you’re already a Christian of whatever denomination, go for it. But don’t think for one minute her traditional beliefs haven’t been “leavened” with unreal expectations by pop culture and feminism. Or that she doesn’t practice hypergamy and hasn’t already had plenty of recreational dick.

Besides, last time I walked into a church the walls started shaking and blood spurted out of the sacrarium

Jsieijejeieokkd · 2018-05-23T11:38:33+00:00

Thanks for the replies, just wondering what the thoughts were out there.

chadjugo · 2018-05-24T09:45:58+00:00

Be careful of alpha widows

RPenginerd · 2018-05-22T22:04:09+00:00

I personally find a belief (real or only professed) in any god or gods extremely unattractive in a woman.

But you do you.

GameAndGains · 2018-05-22T18:15:42+00:00

Being brainwashed is substance?

They are just as big as sluts dude. Don't fall for that fake good girl image.

I took a vacation before to Utah just to bang out mormon chicks and prove this bullshit about religious girls being saints is not true at all. I already knew it, but wanted to experience it first hand.

You should do the same to get this blue pill belief out of your head.

Title	Church game?
Author	Jsieijejeieokkd
Upvotes	2
Comments	14
Date	May 22, 2018 6:00 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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