[Hypothetical] What would be TRP way of acting if you're on a date and the girls starts talking to another dude?

purplefidgetmidget · 2018-05-31T23:32:29+00:00

If it's a shit test then don't let it bother you and go chat up some girls nearby.

If it's not, and she doesn't make quick small talk with whoever she bumped into and then exit the convo, it's just straight up disrespect and you should just walk away.

robewar · 2018-05-31T23:32:44+00:00

This happened to me a couple of weeks ago. I just went and spoke to someone else in the smoking area. She returned within minutes, I carried on like normal and we went back to hers later on.

Wrath_of_Trump · 2018-06-01T05:46:00+00:00

So I literally had this happen last week, and I was the one who ended up getting the guy's girl to dance with me. She secretly asked me for my number when the guy walked away to buy ME a drink because I just randomly started chatting with them. I wasn't really doing anything pick-up'ish, just holding a very chill, energetic, c&f frame and basically taking command of their group to drag them to one of my venues. I'm actually meeting up with her tomorrow where I'll probably close on it and get her to drop him.

So here is what I observed. If she is talking to other guys, chances are that she doesn't have complete attraction to you because she doesn't have fear of losing you. This means you are basically gimping yourself, or following her around hoping to survive the next few hours until you can go back home and she lets you have sex with her. This is a bad frame to have, I used to do this with my girlfriends in my early 20's where I was hypnotized by the warm walls of vag and didn't fully understand that what lead them to me is how I had to continuously conduct myself in order to keep them. It is "comfort mode", complacency. Well, a lot of guys actually get this same frame but in a microcosm when it comes to dates. When you finally get a girl to express just a pixel of interest in you, you think that it's in the bag and all you have to do is talk to them for a few hours and then they'll just jump your bones. Because why wouldn't they, you're not a stuttering wreck, r-right? Well, this is not enough. What actually keeps them interested is seeing how you take command (and keep it), plant seeds in their head about forward-thinking events, maintain decent posture and open body language, and in general just exude certainty and experience. This sounds like a lot, but if you learn to stop giving a fuck about other people and just care about your own entertainment, these things can actually come naturally.

So that is how you can prevent this from happening, but let's say you're already in the situation. Well, you have to accept the fact that this is a broken plate. It's still salvageable, but not through conventional means or effort. Some guys will tell you to walk away, and this isn't bad advice per se, but it's not how I approach the world. I have no problem leaving a broken plate there, maybe she will follow you, but maybe she won't. If you are interested in your own entertainment, then you should be taking advantage of your surroundings. To me, that means if you're in a bar and there's tons of women there, don't waste your night by walking away and pouting to yourself, go talk to other women. You are in charge of your feelings, not her, so if you leave in defeat, it's really your own fault. What you may want to do is walk out of the current venue and see if they chase you down. If they do, then it's "over" but you still have a loose plate who isn't fully respectful of your frame. If they don't follow you, you can either go back and talk to other women, or go to another venue and talk to women. Or if you have another plate you can call for some late night sucky fucky, all the better. But like I said before, the best thing you can do is not get into this situation and have a solid frame she respects and is entertained (and aroused) by. Clearly, the other guy did not. Looking awkward and not knowing what to do is the sign of someone who does not have control of their feelings or balls, she does.

chazthundergut · 2018-06-01T05:25:31+00:00

Depends how long she talks with him for. If it's a few moments because she recognized an old friend, play it cool and don't be weird about it.

But if it goes on for more than 2 or 3 minutes, and you're out on a date with her, it isn't acceptable. Your time is valuable, and you didn't take her out to watch her talk with some other dude. Excuse yourself to the bathroom and just leave. Let the other guy pay for her drinks.

And when she texts you about it, wait till the next day and say "Yea something came up I had to bounce real quick sorry." She will get the message: your time is valuable, you are the prize, and you're not gonna put up with her bullshit.

youcantdenythat · 2018-05-31T23:28:03+00:00

Disinterested, change the subject. They're either clueless or its a shit test.

boy_named_su · 2018-06-01T01:21:00+00:00

Look up anti AMOG tactics on here or pickup forums

https://www.google.ca/amp/s/therationalmale.com/2015/02/02/the-art-of-amog/amp/

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/60063

Title	[Hypothetical] What would be TRP way of acting if you're on a date and the girls starts talking to another dude?
Author	_nein_danke
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Date	May 31, 2018 11:23 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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