I'm not super hot, but I do have a passion for fitness after working really hard getting fit in college. This caused me to get in with the hot fit gym guy crowd at my college. Its obviously not every fit guy, but the fit guys who were born with an attractive face, didn't get acne or hairline problems, and are well known on a campus team really do live in a different world compared to us normal men. The way women treat them is completely different to how we get treated. They won't necessarily just straight up ask them for sex, but they do make it really fucking obvious what they want. They will flash them, start clinging on them, petting their abs or muscles at the parties and then in more professional settings they will be indirectly flirting with them the whole time. So yes the stereotype is true a ridiculously attractive looking guy will have lots of and easy access to sex. They also have a halo effect around them with pretty much all their actions being percieved in the best possible light.

Now despite what people think being friends with guys like that isn't necessarily going to make you bitter. I was roommates with one of them and it did annoy me at times with how often I was getting awoken by loud sex late at night. However I am also a man with a strong sense of fair play. I would be doing the exact same thing if I looked like they do and had the opportunities that they had dropped in front of me. I'm also not bitter at women for it either as I and pretty much all men treat women the same way. We throw ourselves at the ridiculously attractive girls and ignore the more average looking ones. Despite what most men on the internet think there are plenty of average looking girls out there who are surrounded by hot friends having lots of sex while they themselves are largely ignored.

Then again while some people can have easy access to sex I don't think there is any such thing as easy sex. I had 2 relationships in college and one of them produced a lot of drama when it ended. Now if you are having sexual relationships with lots of people no matter your gender you are going to have a comparable level of drama. I think that is part of the reason I was popular with the some of my player friends. My life was relatively drama free without a hoard of pissed off exes at my throat. My friends who had lots of sex also found it difficult to go to some of the parties and bars around town as the chances of running into a ex lover would increase with how much hooking up they did. This is the same regardless of gender I had male friends who started to get a reputation as a fuckboi with the girls and they started to only just get used for sex and nothing more. The same can be said of the girls I was friends with who developed a fuckgirl reputation. While this is fine if you don't want any serious relationships it can make you lonelier in a sense that it makes it difficult to have any serious relationships down the road