Can you be a selective incel?

KeepCopingBuddy · 2023-11-05T19:26:15+00:00

Nearly any man can "ascend" by being an oofy-doofy betabuxx cuck for a grannywhale. So going by that logic, a true incel is less than 1% of men who are disabled or deformed.

The difference, women only desire the top 1% of men while men desire 99% of women. Granted, if you're a grannywhale burn victim with a deformed face then you may be given the mythical title of femcel.

kukkle1111 · 2023-11-05T19:23:19+00:00

My question is then, (if these are things you believe), are you still an incel if you reject women?

Incel = Involuntarily celibate.

Balochim · 2023-11-05T19:59:43+00:00

If incels could get any women to settle with them they wouldn't be incels

TheForspokenOne · 2023-11-05T19:24:04+00:00

Being “incel” doesn’t mean not having dignity ffs.

I’ll much rather stay alone than be in a relationship with some 2/10 land-whale that has no attraction towards me. Every woman desires CHAD, they just can’t lock one down and get him to commit so they settle for some betabuxer who’s willing to provide for literal scraps that CHAD didn’t want.

I have too much dignity to lower myself on the same level as these delusional blue pulled idiots who’s betabuxxing for star fish sex with a land-whale who doesn’t reciprocate. Why would I pay for something that CHAD gets for free?

And to answer your question, I would 100% support marriage if the female counterpart is just as interested in their looks-match. Unfortunately despite what I support, female hypergamy and their entitlement towards CHAD (despite not being in the same league) doesn’t allow for a truly monogamous society.

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-11-05T22:37:28+00:00

You can, and a lot of the people here probably do. But they’re not actually incels, they’re volcels. As a truecel, I disagree with your second observation. I’d be ecstatic if an ugly woman were genuinely attracted to me. But no ugly woman ever wants an ugly man, so I never get the opportunity. I’m not rejecting them; they’re rejecting me.

Princess_kitty14 · 2023-11-06T03:11:07+00:00

beggars can't be choosers

Morgothe · 2023-11-05T20:51:59+00:00

I’d say most of these people including blackpillers and myself are probably “Volcels” not really “Incels”.

Volcel = Voluntarily Celibate.

We want relationships with someone of similar looks, maybe slightly better or worse, but we can’t find anyone that fits this description.

We might get a few chances here and there(very rarely) to hook up with women who are very below in terms of quality but we don’t.

At least in my case I attract really slutty women or women who frequently “date” men and get taken out to dinner to ghost them later.

So yeah they wouldn’t be Incels they’re Volcels.

Hubris1998 · 2023-11-05T19:25:14+00:00

Yes, you can. It's a hill I'm willing to die on.

Exciting-Salary-8344 · 2023-11-05T20:31:54+00:00

I rejected a 2/10 girl as a 4/10 (I got rated as a 5 but I have Aspie so It's like being a 4).

Ofcouse I'm still an incel

Ok_Smile_60 · 2023-11-05T21:37:38+00:00

I guess so? If they’re not requiring a relationship out of you, and women are willing to sleep with you, but they’re below your standards, yeah.

Now if you’re saying you refuse to beta for someone you feel beneath you, I disagree there. That’s like saying you’re not an incel because you can hire escorts

uselessloner123 · 2023-11-05T22:54:13+00:00

People can write any preferences they want online but it doesn’t mean they are actually getting sexual interest even from the super overweight women or whoever they speak against.

This is especially true for men who generally have to lead and show interest except for hot men; thus you can easily have men who are incels who have “preferences” but it doesn’t translate into rejecting women the same way femcels do

Most people write their preferences online, but truth be told probably could not even attract those women.

Title	Can you be a selective incel?
Author	Sanic_gg
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Date	November 5, 2023 7:08 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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