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getting a gf/wife/fwb is NOT BASED ON MERIT

Mark_Jensen
February 27, 2023
9 upvotes
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It's so funny that nobody's noticing all those crazy oofy doofies slobs all around the world with decent looking GFS.

It's crazy to believe but it's true.

We live In a unmeritocratical world and no one wants to admit it. We were just fed to believe in those "meritocratical lies" choked down our throats by the media, society and parents since we were born.

"If you do X you will see results"

"Do Y and you will earn attention from women"

"Just Ignore bro, and she will chase you."

This is farther from the truth, the truth is that we live in a world were NOTHING MAKES SENSE AT ALL, everything is based on FUCKING LUCK.

That's the real truth and no one's to accept that.

Forget all this pills nonsense. I seeing all the RP mgtow pua beliefs being completely destroyed by REALITY.

The reality is: - the lazy unproductive low IQ low labor man is getting LAID without doing any self improvement bs

Listen, I'm not saying that by DEFAULT, the average lazy slob will get laid/gf. Don't misunderstand this.

I'm saying that we have an "FACTOR X", that's COMPLETELY UNRELATED TO what we call "MERIT or HARD WORK or GAME" or whatever.

Factor X is completely the problem, and X being completely multifactorial. We could have a million reasons why you don't have a gf/not getting laid. But not everything in life is so simple to explain. Those "pills" that were created by "human" are just a ideology to try to simplify the unmeritocratical world we live in.

Getting a gf/wife/fwb is NOT BASED ON MERIT, it's that FUCKING SIMPLE!

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Title getting a gf/wife/fwb is NOT BASED ON MERIT
Author Mark_Jensen
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Date February 27, 2023 2:43 AM UTC (1 month ago)
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Getting a gf/wife/fwb is NOT BASED ON MERIT

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February 27, 2023
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[–]KirthWGersen 4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

It is based on merit: if a woman likes a man it is because he has merit in her eyes. It may not be for the reasons you would like it to be, or even for reasons she herself is conscious of, but to her there is a difference between men she likes more and those she likes less.

For most men this barely matters: unless you are fixated on one special woman, you can short circuit the whole dynamic by increasing opportunity. The more women you meet in your everyday life, the greater your chance of meeting a woman who, for whatever reason, likes you more than her other options at that moment.

And there are so many women in the world that any man (barring the most unfortunate) can meet far more women who want him than he could ever have the time to engage with.

An Adonis locked in a room or who self-isolates with his books, TV, video games, or compulsive exercise is not getting laid. A below-average man with a busy social life involving many, many women is guaranteed to get laid sooner or later.

[–]no_bling_just_dingself-aware MSTOW // your genetics = your fate 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

yep it's more emotion based than logic based. if the balding indian janitor were to make her feel hot and cared for, she might give him a shot. this is so improbable in reality however that it's accurate enough to call it impossible.

[–]KirthWGersen 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I know a guy in that very situation. OK, not the same nationality, but an immigrant in the same situation. Works in a restaurant, low paid, estranged wife and child in his home country. Yet he has a long-term lover of a much higher social class. He does have to put in effort though (as most of us do) by cooking for her ailing mother and dealing with her emotional ups and downs.

[–]no_bling_just_dingself-aware MSTOW // your genetics = your fate 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

so good example thanks for illustrating and if im getting this right he has a wife and a side piece

yea something is wrong with the guy

[–]Last-Post2085BlackPill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sucks for introverts then who prefer to stay inside. I never want to be that guy who is out daily doing loads of different social events. Fucking hell that sounds exhausting just thinking about it. I'll stick to playing video games and watching anime.

[–]Heartherebelyell 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

The reality is: - the lazy unproductive low IQ low labor man is getting LAID without doing any self improvement bs

I'm saying that we have an "FACTOR X", that's COMPLETELY UNRELATED TO what we call "MERIT or HARD WORK or GAME" or whatever.

Lower standards?

[–]Mark_Jensen[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

There's no lower standards when the female mind can't even comprehend the concept of "standards" or "value". The average female mind doesn't judge a guy like numbers, like we from the manosphete think they do.

We, from the manosphere, think they rank guys from their social circle from 1 to 10, but life is not like "videogame" guys.

Life is not some game where you grind yourself and can defeat some boss with some cool sword and earn the admiration of a female. Women don't behave like that, only the minority behave like that(those who you see on YouTube shorts and social media posts).

I've seen from anecdotal experience the most lazy slob unproductive guy marrying a Young highly productive beautiful female. It's sad but it's the norm these days.

And it's funny when I see those guys who some of you guys would called Alpha Chads, getting the most lazy unproductive highly narcissist female from the sewers prob.

[–]Heartherebelyell 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I've seen from anecdotal experience the most lazy slob unproductive guy marrying a Young highly productive beautiful female.

In the same social class? Frequently?

[–]Mark_Jensen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Same social class but improving one's social class involves having highly intelligent skills, in which oofy doofies failed to have.

It's not like they marry some crazy slob who they think that will be able to improve the lifestyle of their family, they always pick the worst.

If hypergamy was real, we would see young women dating the rich, tall guys, but they choose the poor, dumb and short men.

[–]Opening_Pattern_301GloriousPill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Is not like there is any merit in having a gf/wife/fwb, you re a man, value yourself instead of allowing somebody else to deem you valuable or not fgs.

Im convinced the idea that a mans value depends on wether a woman desires him sexually or not is one of the main reasons why men and the dating marked in the western world is so fucked.

[–]Drive-By-CuckersWhitePill 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Charisma is merit though, it’s a skill like any other

[–]Mark_Jensen[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

But a FACTOR X as "charisma" doesn't automatically make you having a gf, it does help, but it's not guaranteed results.

There's a lot of guys who have zero charisma and have zero social skills and still manage to have GFS.

[–]keitaitonekoko#8 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

there's not a guaranteed result for anything

[–]Mark_Jensen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

There's a guarantee results for things like passing exams. Here in my country we have a national exam that people can study and score the most amount of points, and with that points, they can be ranked in a college course. With that college course they can improve their knowledge and probably their life.

Passings exams is somewhat meritocratical, but finding a loyal gf is not.

[–]orbstnedifnocdesab 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

just be NT theory

[–]Mark_Jensen[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

NT theory is cope because I know a lot of NT men who didn't have GFS and can't have it even if they tried hard enough.

[–]orbstnedifnocdesab 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

they are not average looking

[–]Weary-Ad-3084 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

Location-maxxing is the answer. The truth of the matter is that if you are shorter than 5'8 or something and live in the West, you should probably move to another part of the world to bang chicks or to look for a potential wife/girlfriend.

Or put yourself in a place where you feel the most success will happen.

[–]Mark_Jensen[S] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

Cope, I've seen a lot of short guys win. This is completely bs.

[–]Weary-Ad-3084 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Even those who are as short as 5'5 or 5'6?

[–]Mark_Jensen[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Very rare to see men with that height and even they have GFS applying oofy doofy law

[–]Weary-Ad-3084 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm 5'5.5. I know how short that this given that the average is 5'10.

[–]Mark_Jensen[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

iT DOESNT EVEN MATTER MAN, it's oofy doofy law out there.

[–]Weary-Ad-3084 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I do notice a lot more attention from women though when I wear lifts and go up to 5'7.5.

Oofy Doofy law is like saying "personality is most important" when height matters as well. I believe the cutoff is like 5'8 for when dating becomes extremely difficult.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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