Has blackpill ideaology and inceldom increased because average woman are not dating their looksmatch. Also did average women in the past date their looksmatch?

Diligent_Divide_4978 · 2023-10-13T00:02:29+00:00

Bpill is spreading because you can’t ignore 63% of young men being single and half of male UK university students being inkwells.

ZookeepergameTasty12 · 2023-10-13T01:51:12+00:00

63% of young men are single. The vast majority of average guys are single, and the percentage of young single men is only going to increase.

Dating is now chad only. If a women cannot get chad, she just stays single.

NefariousNaz · 2023-10-13T04:55:38+00:00

In the past women tended to just date whatever guy that was in their social circle. Especially once they were done with high school. There was a lot more pressure to get married early.

RatDontPanic · 2023-10-13T03:31:15+00:00

This isn't the real problem. Women date and marry their looksmatch. Problem is that relationship is ruined from the get-go. Starfish/duty sex, constant shit testing, dead bedroom, that's what happens when she dates and marries her looksmatch.

Women who marry women have astonishingly high levels of DV, dead bedrooms and divorce. All three, off the charts.

What's the common denominator here?

SproetThePoet · 2023-10-13T01:40:08+00:00

Blackpill spread because the internet streamlined communication and allowed people to share ideas and experiences without repercussions, shame, or effort. It’s always been true, however it’s about attraction and dating was previously not about finding sex partners but vetting for marriage.

curious_lychee9 · 2023-10-12T23:16:05+00:00

Dating dichotomy changed after the genders rightfully became equal, culturally and legally/everyone was afford rights. As such, things have moved away from the nuclear household and monogamous models. It’s basically laissez faire now. Wealth is no longer the main selected for trait, and promiscuity isn’t subject to shaming practices

ThisTimeForRealYo · 2023-10-12T23:34:23+00:00

Women in the past relied on men for survival so they had to date unwashed swampasses.

Men were providers, did all the hard work and women only had to look pretty.

Women are now also working, but society still expects them to put in effort to look pretty, because that’s how it’s always been.

Men’s survival was based on working.

Women’s survival was based on attracting a man by looking pretty. Being pretty alone wasn’t enough. You needed a partner.

Someone with a job only needs a job to survive, so men aren’t adapting, because they’ll survive on a job.

Both genders need to put in effort in both nowadays.

EugeneCezanne · 2023-10-13T01:46:50+00:00

Umm... depending on how far back in the past you go, the looks of the man in a potential relationship is arguable a less and less important variable. You have to consider that until around 1970, the majority of women weren't in the workforce, and choosing a good man was therefore more closely associated with his ability to provide. The macroeconomic reality of the gender divide has, as if often the case when describing the relationship from social changes to social norms, come quite a bit more slowly. But it is a fact that women in the 21st century are generally more free than ever to choose male partners on a wider array of parameters. Perhaps unsurprisingly, sheer physical beauty is one of them.

However, the rise of social media (where you and I find ourselves at this very moment), probably has more to do with why this has resulted in blackpill ideology specifically. Not only does social media disseminate ideologies very quickly, it's also literally built to provide people with more of whatever content they're looking for, nd make them more collectively visible for doing so.

ROBYoutube · 2023-10-12T23:24:28+00:00

It's cool that you admit to knowing literally nothing about any of this and whatever these absolute clowns say you will believe, repeat, and defend to the death lol.

DarkAdmirable653 · 2023-10-13T00:55:25+00:00

Women irl date their looksmatches. Women who date online do not (which is somewhere between 40-50% of all couples in 2023)

LifeIsAVeryBadJoke · 2023-10-13T05:28:15+00:00

I just found out about Trevor Bauer. If he has difficulty with women (that's to put it lightly), I don't think most men are doing well.

Title	Has blackpill ideaology and inceldom increased because average woman are not dating their looksmatch. Also did average women in the past date their looksmatch?
Author	SheepyTLDR
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Date	October 12, 2023 10:58 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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