Has self improvement made a difference for anyone here? Did it really make you more attractive & desirable to women? Were you able to get any good results in the dating field?

TelephonicRugPeddler · 2023-04-15T22:31:37+00:00

Yes. Yes. Yes.

Improvements:

-Face (surgery/fillers, skin care, braces/whitening)

-Body (10% bf, gymaxx)

-Clothes (still basic but fit good due to body)

-Money (buy crypto, subcategory of money would travel + cars)

-OLD profile (good photos)

Lainsel · 2023-04-16T00:20:57+00:00

I had options in my lowest point in life when I was a junkie but I always had a "not getting involved with junkie girls" policy which I don't regret. For me, I guess it's always been the same since I was a kid. I'm 90% sure I've always been below 15% body fat all my life so there's been no dramatic turn around. 90% of successful self improvers are just obese/overweight men who lost the fat and happened to have a chad/chadlite face under the fat and tall height lol.

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-04-15T23:33:39+00:00

A few wars ago I started dressing better because I switched jobs. More button ups, better looking shoes, more ties, slacks, etc. I got slightly more positive reactions from women at work. But I don’t think that you can go from 0-100 without getting taller, surgery, some kind training that gives you elite level charisma. All of that probably takes money.

SecondEldenLord · 2023-04-16T12:09:49+00:00

After I self improved bith mentally and physically ( i gymmaxxed, 6 times a week in the gym), I would say it made it easier to befriend women, but certainly not easier for dating. I am a 5'3 man so no matter what I do, I will still be a short man who will get constantly rejected by women because of my looks. But honestly, it doesn't bother me anymore. I am 32 at the moment and after I noticed women's behaviour in the dating world, I'm sort of glad I am unattractive to them, less headaches and less hassle. If I want sex, I will just pay a hooker, I am not doing too bad financially either.

Extra-Confection-706 · 2023-04-16T00:51:59+00:00

Yes It works. Especially if you are already above average looking but still below the 20%. In this case gym, clothes, surgery can help a lot.

What also always works for men is money and status. Also changing country if you are White.

2023-04-16T01:33:26+00:00

Yes, to all of your questions.

Coolio_Street_Racer · 2023-04-16T08:38:19+00:00

Did following looksmaxxing over the course of two years

Finasteride for hair thinning
Lower Bf %
Mewing
Improved Wardrobe
Improved Haircut

I feel like my lowering my bf % was 60% of it. But the other steps do also make a diffrence. My match rate on tinder 2 years ago was 1.4%. It's at 8% rn.

My conversion went up a lot too. Out of that 1.4% a lot more woman were flaky or it seemed like I was trying to convince them to go out with me. Now the interest seem more mutual than one sided more often than not. I don't even use tinder that much bc the ratio sucks. But it's just the best empirical evidence.

From my personal experience it's definitely all around easier to deal with woman. Just like dudes treat a more attractive woman better. Woman are the same and all around they are friendlier with you. In terms of friendships, relationships, etc...

Taipanshimshon · 2023-04-16T00:42:02+00:00

KayRay1994 · 2023-04-16T01:43:36+00:00

its made a huge improvement - i worked a lot on my physical health, mental health, presentation, confidence, and so on and while there is still so much that needs to be done, I’ve been seeing results for pretty much the past year as a whole.

In the past 12 months alone i’ve had more success with women then the entirety of my life combined, for context i’m 28

zastale · 2023-04-16T11:27:25+00:00

Growing out hair, improving physique, braces (currently) + jaw surgery down the road, as well as skin treatment (see Dr. Davin Lim on YT) in the future.

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