Normies obsession with "insecurity" is bizarre

Eyesofmalice · 2023-11-14T11:21:24+00:00

That’s a very good observation, I had never thought about that.

SmoothForest · 2023-11-14T12:11:59+00:00

It's the classic bully technique. Instead of judging yourself for inflicting unnessecary suffering on other people, you judge your victims for their lack of pain endurance.

You bully someone and then when they try to stand up for themselves you just say, 'why are you so senstive? why are you so mad? are you too thin skinned to handle a bit of banter? too weak to handle a bit of rough play?' Even though their banter involves meticulously jabbing at your deepest insecurities and rough play involves putting you in a headlock, slamming your face on desks, and threatening to stab you. All normies and chads without exception are psychopathic rabid animals.

Ok_Cycle225 · 2023-11-14T12:21:21+00:00

Sex (and life) is a competition. Of course they want to keep short people down. Keeping men down = less likely to compete with them for women.

It's one reason I always think that men will never have a brotherhood like women do. Because we're always in it for ourselves. Unless you join a load of monks up a mountain or something.

Mauf066 · 2023-11-14T12:28:22+00:00

Literally every single human is insecure about something, these very same people who try to shame it are very much insecure too. I don't get upset about this tactic though because I know the average normie who uses it didn't actually put a single second to think about it critically, they just heard it somewhere (probably from a feminist woman, this seems to be one of their favorites) and just repeated it like a brainless sheep.

Prudent-Pilot-1236 · 2023-11-14T12:26:41+00:00

Today my clasmmate got mocked by a girl for being short

TheGrandScheme3 · 2023-11-14T09:11:37+00:00

I’ll offer a possible explanation, but be warned it is quite long:

Bizarre doesn’t do the obsession justice. It’s two-faced hypocrisy at best and at worst it’s any negative adjective you want or use to describe it. Personally I’d say pure evil. All their talk about insecurity is a pure projection for their own insecurity. Ironic isn’t it.

First of all, let’s not even address the relationship and dating based stuff and just look at evolution. What is the purpose of insecurity? The purpose of feeling insecurity is your brain telling you that you are not secure (shocking I know).

It’s to signal to you that you should be cautious and take measures to ensure that you, your family, and your tribe are safe. Those that had the happy go lucky attitude of everything is fine likely didn’t end up passing their genes onward cause they carelessly died, whereas those that used their brain’s gut insecurity signal to their advantage managed to live longer and reproduce because they were more often on guard. This goes for men and women.

But since we are going to be talking about relationships and dating, I’ll give an example that relates to older times as well. Being insecure about paternity makes sense, especially when before there was no DNA testing. It’s simply not evolutionarily beneficial to risk your life and your genes to raise a child that’s not genetically yours. Common sense. Yet when we have the tech available in modern times, women have a visceral defensive mechanism against simply taking the test. This is also a form of insecurity. If the man gets any inkling that something is going on, then why the fuck would Oog bring food back. Therefore women have this reaction in order to convince the man to continue to provide by threatening the end of the relationship.

(As aside note, this is really telling. If someone wanted me to prove something I’d show them the evidence and move on. Especially if a lot of money, trust, and the relationship is at stake. What’s wrong with proving that you are trustworthy further. Playing these mind games is very suspicious. But apparently it’s normal and men aren’t entitled to know anything and have to blindly trust. It really does show you what they think about men. You are a resource, and not a person with your own emotions).

Moving on. Now that we’ve established what insecurity is and why it is useful, let’s look at how the normies themselves fester and create it.

Normies are extremely hypocritical. They say they are good people, while simultaneously talking about people behind their back and mocking people they deem lesser in order to boost their social standing by one point.

Anyone who has been to high school or a workplace has probably seen some variation of this. If this behavior is so hated, then why is it so widespread? The answer is simple. Even though normies say they hate it, they actually enjoy it when it benefits them and allows them to flaunt their higher social status.

I already gave my in depth thoughts on bullying in another longer comment which I’ll link: https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/s/GvoaumbMAC

They get a rush off of being superior and laughing at people who are struggling while they simultaneously go on social media and fish for attention by talking about how “depressed” they are. 0 self awareness. And these are your everyday high schoolers mind you. They talk about how bad bullying is while laughing at people. This behavior continues into adulthood as well. It never ends.

The worst part is that if you try to help the victim as an outside observer or try to ease the tension then they play it off like they’re joking and as if you’re the fool. Then they make you the butt of the joke as well.

They laugh in the background while they play the “bystander effect” card and then act like they’re fundamentally heroic people.

The part you just read is also taken from another comment I made.

Basically, the picture that I’m trying to illustrate is that normies feast off of making others feel insecure in order to boost their own standing. They themselves are the main cultivators of insecurity.

Look at their shaming language for proof: “Basement dweller” “Loner/Doomer” “Incel” “Napoleon complex” “Small dick energy”

The very purpose of these phrases is to attack you and make you feel insecure about something. Whether it’s genetics, height, social standing, penis size, personality/worldview/mindset.

Now let’s go back to the purpose of insecurity. It’s a signal that tells you to be careful, be on guard, maybe change what you’re doing, and letting you know that something is wrong. It’s that weird uneasy gut feeling basically.

Fofotron_Antoris · 2023-11-14T16:58:49+00:00

"You're insecure if you don't accept a woman who rode the CC but instead prefer a virgin like yourself!"

I automatically associate "secure" with "cuck" as "secure" people don't seem to care (or so they tell themselves) that their woman fucked other men.

Title	Normies obsession with "insecurity" is bizarre
Author	Zealousideal_Arm6146
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Date	November 14, 2023 7:14 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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