The oldest cycle of love that was acceptable by everyone in the 80's where the average man could have sex with a hot girl was like this :

1_ she loves Chad=====> 2_ Chad see women as inferior and only want them for sex ====> 3_ she feel used ====>4_ she now can't stand another heartbroke and doesn't consider Chad an option 4====> the best option is the nice guy even if she give him sex at least he loves her .

This cycle was the only way the average men had a good relationships and hookups in the past but it was ruined by the average man himself when he tried to fix Chad and be women Ally , why couldn't you just shut up?!!! Just let women fix their own problem?! Why couldn't you just do what women do now with men's issues?!!! , "Why women like @ssholes?! " how the f do you know he is an actual @sshole you never knew him !!!

_ And no women don't like being single it's just easier to find a man (probably the same day) and since men are the one who initiate , women get a " "honeymoon " phase every time and without commiting