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Stop trying to explain your failures away.

crypto_druid
March 9, 2023
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You can research and debate all you wish, you can find studies, surveys, and anecdotes to explain why you are disadvantaged, and you may or may not be right, not none of that matters.

What matters is that you know you are disadvantaged, explaining why you are disadvantaged isnt going to stop you from being disadvantaged.

The only thing that can create advantage for you is you, no one is coming to save you, no one else cares if you are disadvantaged….every person has their own flaws and mental bullshit they have to deal with in their own heads, people care about themselves, not about you.

Life is extremely competitive, as a male, it’s even more fierce.

The way to create advantage is to develop a unique sets of skills or qualities that make you valuable to other people, and to use those skills to create value.

What can you currently offer the world?. If I was to meet you in person for the first time tomorrow, can you demonstrate anything to me that would make me want to meet you again? If the answer is no, can you demonstrate anything to anyone that would make them want to meet you again?. If the answer is no….then why? And why would anybody want anything to do with you if you offer no value to them? Think about that.

Please no idiotic comments. Let’s try to have a mature discussion about personal responsibility for once with out triggering of snowflakes. If you’re offended by reality…..then be offended…nothings going to happen, dont tell me, I don’t care.

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Title Stop trying to explain your failures away.
Author crypto_druid
Upvotes 7
Comments 43
Date March 9, 2023 8:55 AM UTC (2 weeks ago)
Subreddit /r/AllPillDebate
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Comments

[–]no_bling_just_dingself-aware MSTOW // أشهد أن لا حبة إلا الحبة السوداء 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

this is true but rather than explaining to others why you're disadvantaged, finding out that you are and understanding how can go a long way in gaining advantages. not knowing how your situation is different from someone else's is how french people who watched too many american police shows end up citing the bill of rights to french cops when they're under arrest and making fools of themselves.

[–]crypto_druid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, like I said….you can know why, but it’s still not going to change anything.

People can dedicate their time to do something about it….or they can be black pilled and dedicate their time to do nothing but focus on the disadvantages and use that as a reason to do nothing about it

[–]debatelord_1 2 points3 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

The self-imprOOOOOOver is in the house

Gotta imprOOOOOve

[–]crypto_druid[S] 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

Idiotic comment

[–]debatelord_1 3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

The idea that sex is the result of "hard work" and "taking responsibility" is idiotic

[–]crypto_druid[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

I’m glad you posted.

You’ve made it clear you are not interested in what I have to say and that’s fine, For the sake of people reading….

Going back to what I said about having qualities that would make people want to meet you again….

Imagine you were invited by a friend to make some decent contacts that he knows, you show up and you’re sitting in the company of some serious people, they are all discussing important topics like improvement, responsibility and work, everybody is chipping in ideas, expressing themselves to the best of their ability and trying to inspire each other. And one guy is sitting there sniggering, offering nothing of substance at all, just jeering at them, making wise cracks, minimising everything anyone says.

Do you think these men are going to say after “this is a guy we would love to have as a friend, ally and colleague?. Or do you think they’d say to whoever invited him “why did you invite this guy?“ and ask him not to invite him again?.

I already touched on the importance of value, if you can’t bring substance, or at minimum, respect to others, then you’re always going to be disadvantaged in life, no one is going to want to help you or be around you.

[–]debatelord_1 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

You must be real fun at parties, always discussing "serious topics" and "work"

Tbh irl I'm often the guy people come to with serious topics because I'm well informed. I'm the guy with the plan and known to be extremely reliable.

[–]crypto_druid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

“Tbh irl I'm often the guy people come to with serious topics because I'm well informed. I'm the guy with the plan and known to be extremely reliable”

So, you should understand what ive been talking about.

And you obviously also know there’s a time to be serious and a time to be a clown, if you didn’t then your friends wouldn’t take you so seriously

[–]caption291 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Going back to what I said about having qualities that would make people want to meet you again….

I would rather meet him than you.

[–]crypto_druid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Show me your company and I’ll tell you who you are.

I’m not stopping you.

[–]zastale 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is funny as fuck.

[–]l00ks-p1lled 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I think the biggest problem is that the (percieved) reward is not worth the effort and in addition the energy level of people is proportional to their self esteem, which most always is based upon being good looking.

It's a matter of chicken and egg: if you end up a "loser" how are you going to find the will and energy to try to improve yourself?

I'm not saying this to discourage people, I just want to point the main problem that is not talked about in self-improvement speeches such as this post. Most times the energy to self improve won't and can't come from the inside because most people need the feeling that their goal is reachable and not too far away

[–]crypto_druid[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

If it can’t come from you, where can it come from?.

why can’t it be far away? Why can’t things be difficult to attain?

[–]l00ks-p1lled 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't have a definite answer, I suppose most humans are naturally designed to give importance to short term and mid term goals, if something is too far away in time or difficulty humans will usually give up or shift goal.

[–]crypto_druid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Are you sure we are naturally designed? Or coddled by technology to expect everything to be quick and easy.

It's a form of entitlement. IMO

I wouldn't imagine anything came quick and easy to anyone pre industrial revolution time, and really not until around maybe the 1960s things just started becoming more easily available

[–]Dreaminofthepasts 1 point2 points  (17 children) | Copy Link

Life is extremely competitive, as a male, it’s even more fierce.

I thought it was muh equality lmfao

[–]crypto_druid[S] 0 points1 point  (16 children) | Copy Link

Idiotic comment

[–]Dreaminofthepasts 0 points1 point  (15 children) | Copy Link

No u

[–]crypto_druid[S] 1 point2 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

A one liner with no substance designed to minimise a persons effort to express himself as articulately as he can.

clearly my efforts were the idiotic ones and yours fantasically showed off your intellectual prowess. Youre an asset to the community.

[–]Dreaminofthepasts 0 points1 point  (13 children) | Copy Link

"Idiotic comment" was given a commensurate response. You get what you dish out

You could have, for example, chosen to explain why it's idiotic.

But nope, you didn't.

So far all I see is it's length

Well the words idiotic comment isn't really long either, and at least mine was actually engaging the material and not just overturning the game board

[–]crypto_druid[S] 0 points1 point  (11 children) | Copy Link

“ You could have, for example, chosen to explain why it's idiotic”

I assumed it would have been self apparent, but seeing as it wasn’t, I explained why in the above comment

“ You get what you dish out “

I also explained in the above comment that your response to my OP was a far cry from what I dished out.

here it is again in case you missed it...

“ A one liner with no substance designed to minimise a persons effort to express himself as articulately as he can“

​

at least mine was actually engaging the material

you are more than welcome to clarify what relevance or substance your comment had in relation to my post

[–]Dreaminofthepasts 0 points1 point  (10 children) | Copy Link

Either muh equality is true, or a wicked fucking lie used to exploit men.

If

Life is extremely competitive, as a male, it’s even more fierce.

Is true, then muh equality is a wicked lie.

If it is a wicked lie, the liars need to be held to account

[–]crypto_druid[S] 0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy Link

What has equality got to do with my post?.

Answer, nothing.

No substance, no relevance.

You're just thread hijacking.

Idiocy.

Nothing good can come from engaging with a bad faith actor, I have said everything I want to say.

[–]Dreaminofthepasts 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy Link

I don't care what you have to say this is for the audience

IF MEN AND WOMEN ARE EQUAL WHY THE FLYING FUCK WOULD LIFE BE UNIQUELY FIERCELY COMPETITIVE AS A MAN?!

[–]crypto_druid[S] 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

Because we are not equal, dumb ass.

[–]Constant_Ad6906 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

I think this is a good message for young men who find lose their way at to young an age.

[–]crypto_druid[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

It’s the talk their dads never gave them.

[–]Dreaminofthepasts 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Single motherhood is feminists' fault. Before liberation, there were intact families

[–]crypto_druid[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

not sure what that has to do with my post. But ok.

[–]Dreaminofthepasts 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

the talk their dads never gave them

How are their dads gonna give them talks when they ain't even in the house

[–]crypto_druid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Very true.

and sometimes even at home fathers are absent fathers

[–]caption291 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

The way to create advantage is to develop a unique sets of skills or qualities that make you valuable to other people, and to use those skills to create value.

That's a way. It's actually a pretty hard way. There's another option where you create problems until people accept to treat you fairly. The reason you aren't considering that "negative" option is because you're trying to convince the slaves to keep working instead of rebelling.

[–]crypto_druid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

“ It's actually a pretty hard way”

Why does it have to be easy? Where are you adverse to difficulty and challenge?

”There's another option where you create problems until people accept to treat you fairly”

hows that been working out for you?.

[–]Sea-Cow4216 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Playing the red pill game here (and the rock on my finger says I played it well) If I work (and work is the key word here) to be a good homemaker, and I bite my tongue, and take a pause before I start nagging because I want to cultivate the best home and relationship, why would I expect someone who prioritized self improvement as well?

It reminds me of that scene in gone girl where Amy talks about "he honestly expected me to love him unconditionally." No, to be in a relationship means to continually be improving/maintains yourself as you're subjecting someone to you.

[–]crypto_druid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

why would I expect someone who prioritized self improvement as well?

did you mean “why wouldnt I” ?

of course, you would if you bring value to the table then you should expect that in all relationships with all people.

[–]gruckendudBlackPill 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Getting a unique set of skills is important for getting a career and finding success in life. To relate that to relations between men and women, the money you get from a successful career may definitely help you in becoming a beta bux provider, or being even more than a chad than you already are, but at the end of the day the main "qualities and skills" that women care about are looks and height, which are immutable.

[–]crypto_druid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The only immutable thing in this conversation is your mind.

You saying that all successful men are “beta buxers”?. That's silly.

Looks and height are not qualities or skills man, they are characteristics.

Your qualities and skills are what you can DO for others.

[–]Occams_clipper 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

The 20th century disproves everything you are so vehemently asserting.

[–]crypto_druid[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

That’s a great way to say absolutely nothing

[–]Occams_clipper 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Feminists were told all the same things that you are now saying to blackpillers. They did the OPPOSITE and got what they wanted.

[–]crypto_druid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

you’re taking the discussion into a Segway. Perhaps make a fresh post to discuss that idea? It’s not what I’ve been discussing. And you have failed to disprove anything

[–]SlapThatSillyWillyBlackPill 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

What can you currently offer the world?. If I was to meet you in person for the first time tomorrow, can you demonstrate anything to me that would make me want to meet you again?

Men don't seem to ask women this question.

[–]crypto_druid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The men I know do. Why don't you?.

That's a question every man should ask, not out loud, but ask himself.

“What would make me want to meet her again?”.

There are plenty of women ive had no interest in after first encounter.

Why would you want to meet a girl again who offers no significant value to you?.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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