For some reason, society lies to men about the realities of sexual attractiveness. Instead of telling boys the truth, they are given a fairy tale narrative of being nice, sensitive, bla bla bla, which doesn't work. They are also told that signs of disinterest are just "playing hard to get", etc. And the end result is that these boys grow into men who are completely incapable of properly navigating the dating market.

For those that are ugly or average, this turns into a big problem. Unlike women, who are raised to be black-pilled about looks and desirability, boys are set up to learn this the hard way.

They end up frustrated and take out these negative feelings on women in general. If more boys were black-pilled from an early age, those who can't obtain good results in the dating market would just gracefully exit the stage instead of beating themselves up about it.