There’s is an attitude that plagues all our expressions on this sub, which is characterized by this undying faith in reason and intellect being able to convince bother others and ourselves that it is truly over.

And I don’t want to flounder my loyalty here, I unequivocally and absolutely only care for us incels when writing this, for the normies lurking I’d imagine they’ll just come with some ridiculous point that trivialize a level of loneliness and pain they’ve never felt anyway.

When you’re lonely for so many years you grow desperate, you grow paranoid, as a result of loneliness. Loneliness makes it so that everyone else’s motives and reasoning become inescrutable due to them being always elements in a landscape of happiness that evades you, that confronts at every turn. The desperation usually drives us incels to merciless torture of either ourselves or others, in varying degrees and forms.

Finally our age offers us science, and the firm confidence that reason and motivation are enough to dispell our emotions, and shows itself to be the only solution for those of us who are too cowardly to take our own lives, so science offers us a bargain that could pass for a contract written by the devil in a very sentimental and pathetic play, we believe that if we find the most elaborate, sophisticated and rational explanation for all aspects of social life, we'll find ourselves being able to trivialize our own suffering by understanding it, and thus overcoming it. This is of course very much en vogue in our society.

The idea is always to believe blindly that once an issue has been thoroughly understood and every single bit of its manifestations analyzed, the solutions will become a serious of simple steps every single individual can follow, and that every hurdle that might seem iron clad, is just lack of analysis and thoroughness.

Unfortunately, I think part of the despair of the black pill comes from knowing that, all our reasoning won't manifest a solution to the despair loneliness and rejection that buries us. And we are very much buried alive. Many jesters will say "oh there's so much more to life than being loved, you're just setting yourself up for failure by your own attitude" which is another manifestation of this mad, rambling intellectualization that never stops. it's just the eternal prayer of those who believe that all their lives can be divided into simple congruent parts that all fit nicely and tight with one another and that make every bit of pain and pleasure accomplished by every single individual ever an endless chain of simple decisions taken between every blink of one's eye.

In art, usually people have a skewed idea of tragedy as the history of a character that dies in an unfortunate way, however I don't think this idea of tragedy is accurate, the climax of a tragedy is that in which the main character suffers a symbolic death that leaves him alive but devoted¿id of purpose. his real death becomes trivial because his symbolic death came suddenly and unexpectedly. That's why Incels are the only ones who can understand the tragic aspect of finding out that you'll never be loved. regardless of the reasons behind it, regardless of the burden of proof behind it, every incel is left knowing that there are no guilty, but that they're condemned to be investigators and scientists of a knowledge that is acquired by experience on everyone else. We inches try to grasp by reason that which can only be taught by the touch of the other, by the compassion and warmth found on another's heart. That is our symbolic death, and after that death, our life becomes a rather trivial endeavor.

A norm might perceive love as a peripheral factor in a life filled with the great sources of joy and pride, but that multi -laterality of their lives is a manifestation of the possession of a knowledge that can only be grasped by experience and not by intellect. That is only available for those for whom others aren't just elements that move inscrutably and enigmatically over a foreign and confronting landscape, but rather that see in the background different connections, individuals, and motivations.

So to summarize, it's impossible for a normie and an incel to see eye to eye, not necessarily because they believe different things, since both of us often just have this religious belief in intellectuality and objectification, but rather the issue is the way in which we acquire knowledge on social phenomena. We inches only have the appearances snd the exteriority of social relations, normies learn it by living it, and when you're deprived of the opportunity to experience something all that's left is an endless satanic self mutilation of endless rationalization in the hopes the devil one day fulfills their side of the bargain and makes something illogical and irrational in your life that will bring a form of salvation that reason can't account for.