Women do approach. The reason why people think they don't is because they've not been around an attractive man before. I have a chad friend who does trigger arousal in women instantly without doing anything. Every time we go on a night out, there will atleast be one or two women who will forwardly approach him, dance with him, and then make out with him a few minutes later. He never approaches women. And trust me, he isn't charismatic. He has a monotone voice, speaks super quietly, is super shy, and has very mute facial expressions. But he's 6ft 1 tall, slim (no muscle), white, and has blue eyes.

For example, one time at a nightclub there was this girl who was looking over at my friend group from the other side of the dance floor. Eventually, she and her friends moved to start dancing next to our group. So I approached one of the girls there. We chat, I made her laugh mutliple times, and then I asked for her number. She said yes, she pulled out her phone.

But then she hesitated. She then told me, "I was looking at your friend the whole night." So I asked her which one, and pointed to my gymcel friend - a buff guy but he has aspergers and 5 ft 10.

She shook her head. I point over at my shortcel friend - a cool guy but he's 5 ft 6.

She shook her head. I pointed at my chad friend.

And obviously, she nodded. So I introduced her to him with a smile on my face, despite boiling with shame and embarressment and self loathing on the inside. He didn't say a single word to her. I'm the one who approached her and made her laugh, yet she chose him. She made out with him a few minutes after I introduced her to him. I had to spend the entire night, from midnight till 6am, approaching and getting rejected by woman after woman whilst my chad friend was just making out with her and cuddling her and hugging her and holding hands with her the entire night.

The idea that women aren't as visual as men is a myth. The idea that women don't approach is a myth. Women do approach. They just don't approach you. They don't approach me. They approach chad. The rest of us then have to approach their leftovers and hope our silly pickup strategies and lines is able to convince them to settle for average. But always remember, just because you got them to settle for average for a week, 2 weeks, 6 months, a year, 5 years, there will always come a point when they will get sick of settling for you, dump you, and leave you to give getting chad another go.