We live in a culture where there is this insane and ridiculous push for Men to be "fun" at any cost in order to get pussy.

You read about it all the time in PUA books, and if You're fortunate enough to have a "good" (well-intended) Friend that will tell You how it is straight-up, He will tell you the same: she doesn't want You because You're not interesting enough, Your personality sucks, Your clothes are shit, and You don't have any friends. Their solution? Just ... be interesting, Brother! Fix yourself! Find yourself some Bros.

This will stimulate any thinking Man to ask, "okay how?" And thus the chase begins. she's got You on the hook, right from the get-go, simply because You're stuck asking "how?" Eventually You start spouting on about how "life is a journey" or some such nonsense without actually becoming a voyager Yourself.

Granted, there's some excellent advice out there. The Book of Pook, the Book of Bonecrker, Sex God Method, The Art of Seduction, and so on and so forth. I'm not saying that Men shouldn't put forth at least some intensive initial effort to try to fix what needs fixing.

The justification that is given for this is "You still have to approach, You still have to make a move. pussy isn't going to come to You."

That's because approaching is a response to IOIs. It is not a stimulus. And this art is being lost. If she isn't looking at You like she wants to get banged, Brother, it just ain't there and You are wasting Your time. Never bother trying to fuck girls that aren't showing any sign of wanting it. You will never stir anything up in her; it's all in her head. And I hate to break it to You, but she's not even thinking about You even if Your dick is inside her. she's fantasizing about conning Christian Grey into having a baby He doesn't want.

What's overlooked is this. We've got ourselves an epidemic of assclown Men in this world that will tapdance for the sniz. They will bend over backward for a "chance" with a girl that is out of Their "league." And most of the time They don't even realize They are doing it. In their never-ending quest to avoid putting the pussy on the pedestal, They end up doing just exactly that.

PUAs, simps, manginas, and white knights are one and the same.

It's ... in a nutshell ... retarded.

This all stems from the fact that a long-standing habit spanning decades has taken hold: the search for solutions without defining the problem first. People will overlook the problem and want to move past it as quickly as possible. To define the problem requires critical thinking skills, which are in very short supply. But no, everyone has faith. Everyone's a believer. There's just not enough skepticism, and when presented it's almost always met with hostility. Especially when it goes against the narrative.

Marketing and advertising is like throwing gasoline on a fire. For girls, the obvious target market for the majority of all of it, their hypergamy is now on a level unheard of ever before. It's completely out of control and their laundry list of demands and shit tests is never ending.

We're told to Man up and dress to impress. That's been Our role for centuries. We have to look good, be rich, and be a high value, high status Man in order to attract the girls that we really want.

Fine, but that's just not enough is it? Of course not, it never is.

girls' "standards" are based around the fact that she's got a golden vagina that can do no wrong and hers, individually, yes hers, is the greatest and most glorious treasure in the universe.

Many Men spend their lives trying to be dominant and cool enough to be chosen for the moments that she wants her pussy smashed. As a result, They are stuck in a never-ending loop of chasing, where she is actually the one that holds all of the real power. He thinks He's got game but He's still playing by her rules.

It's one thing to approach, and it's another thing entirely to chase. But rather than being chased, these Men invest all their time and effort unwittingly chasing tail. They never reach that crucial point of realization that the only winning move is not to play.

And after a while, He's worn out, He's burnt out, He's tired of the bullshit, He pulls himself off the market, and He exits the game, victorious in His own way, with a string of good and bad experiences trailing behind Him. Sometimes He got "lucky," sometimes He didn't. But He never acquired skill at anything, much less with pussy.

And what's always the conclusion coming from such Men? "girls are boring."

Close but no cigar. These Men still have not done enough introspection.

What is the one thing that girls will always avoid? Being bored. Why? Because they are. Deep down inside they are bored stupid. Men aren't entertaining enough. Men aren't interesting enough. Men don't do enough. she could be a suburbanite princess that literally has the entire world in her hands and she will still want more.

girls aren't problems, girls don't have problems, girls create problems. They love to stir up the shit and they will gleefully string You along for their own entertainment simply because they are bored.

When, for your entire life, you've had everything handed to you on a silver platter, when you're told that the sun shines out of your ass, when you're exalted and coddled by everyone the world over, you don't appreciate it. You expect it. And you get bored with it very quickly.

  • girls aren't boring. girls are BORED.
  • Men are boring.

That's how it is. That's who we are. That's our natural state.

Don't hide from it, don't try to change it, don't try to cover it up. That's like putting make-up on. That's like wearing push-up bras. That's for chicks.

EMBRACE it. Congratulations, lifting is now the most routine, uneventful, and uninteresting part of Your day. You still have to do it, but now that You have memorized every page of Starting Strength, You know exactly what function every muscle in Your body serves. You are now the Cliff Clavin of sports medicine. Nobody will invite You to parties and You're fine with that.

Yours Sincerely,

The Most Boring Man On Earth

And Proud Of It