You can't win.

rainbow_bro_bot · 2021-08-10T22:51:52+00:00

Porn is objectifying, until feminists find out how much money can be made from it (eg Onlyfans), then it becomes "empowering".

redditorseattle91 · 2021-08-10T22:03:35+00:00

In porn, women are paid far more than men. Where's your equality now?

General-Ad9818 · 2021-08-11T01:08:38+00:00

I tend to notice women objectifying themselves whether they are wearing revealing clothes, twerking or doing porn and and yet they get mad when men objectifying them. I’m thinking like “girl, your doing this to yourself, don’t get mad at him.”. You really can’t win in these types of arguments.

Sometimes as a woman, it can be really embarrassing to see some women act like this

Crusid_LLH · 2021-08-10T21:24:23+00:00

Their opinion changes depending on the person's sex, gender, sexuality or race. I mean, if you agree with a white male, you're clearly contributing to this 'patriarchy'. It's all bullshit.

BigAlphaMale32 · 2021-08-10T22:26:19+00:00

Honestly, I looked at this meme, and in my head thought "you cant win" and looked at the title, bro we are on the same Wfi man.

UltimaterializerX · 2021-08-10T22:59:20+00:00

“Don’t objectify women even though I have an OnlyFans” is one of the dumbest trends I’ve seen in forever.

Lonystal · 2021-08-11T02:45:15+00:00

The fact that they consider the so called "sex work" to be empowering just shows how shitty their mindset is

No-Radio-3085 · 2021-08-10T21:13:04+00:00

whatch porn whitout women in it

PeteyDanish7 · 2021-08-11T09:26:55+00:00

Well, you're kinda telling them what to do. Maybe change 'should' to 'can'

CactusDick4Life4You · 2021-08-10T22:11:44+00:00

The correct answer is to not give a fuck.

Throwaway90618 · 2021-08-11T00:33:58+00:00

It's very rare for women to take accountability

ShinyBronze · 2021-08-11T01:58:21+00:00

You would think they would have found a way to counter this argument by now seeing as how it’s their biggest criticism but nope.

They are still stuck on, “the point is to do what we want to do with our bodies.”

Digitaldreamer7 · 2021-08-11T03:37:19+00:00

"OK, Do porn but don't expect anyone with half a moral compass to give a shit about you ever again"

Omega_Stevedoxx3000 · 2021-08-10T22:16:12+00:00

women are just way better at arguing than men that's why feminism exist today

Mammoth-Stranger · 2021-08-11T05:34:24+00:00

Exactly, there is no winning when someone is thinking with this kind of logic. Best just to avoid and let them be, otherwise it's just going to be a never ending argument that ends with you being banned for "misogynist" language. That term is thrown around entirely too loosely these days.

ASentientTacoShell · 2021-08-11T05:35:48+00:00

dumb meme because of

should

mcove97 · 2021-08-11T05:54:51+00:00

Can't everyone just do what they like? If you wanna do porn, do porn but don't complain that it's objectifying cause that's sort of pretty much exactly the point. Don't like it don't do it.

As a woman I don't really get these feminists. Can't everyone just mind their own business? You like doing porn? Go for it. You don't, then don't go for it, but don't shit on others people choices just cause you wouldn't wanna make those choices yourself. I don't go shitting on men working out in the gym just cause I hate going to the gym myself.

DelsinPRO · 2021-08-11T09:07:06+00:00

idk mayn, can and should are seperate keywords

victorianasshole · 2021-08-11T11:43:47+00:00

More like "how dare you use free porn website?" Sub to my onlyfans and pay me to see my used meow meow and sagging disfigured titties for life.

Remarkable_Weather21 · 2021-08-13T20:58:13+00:00

as long as they are not violating law you should not talk about what a woman should do or should not it is unnecessary and it does not belong there

KimJongDos42069 · 2021-08-17T11:47:12+00:00

The usage of the term "win" in this case is an outstanding example of the right's destructive epistemology in relation to political discourse. For most conservatives, the best outcome of a political conversation is a victory, to "wreck the libs," to satiate the ego. This poisons political discourse and turns debate away from solution seeking and instead turns it into something that purely serves one's ego. Political discourse should serve to help seek solutions to problems and challenge mindsets, even if that means you feel euphoric about your victory. If you think that your opponent contradicts themselves and your main preoccupation is not that their dishonesty harms political discourse, but rather that you personally can't win, this reveals your own harmful selfish interest in politics.

matiasGE · 2021-08-11T11:22:30+00:00

I’m pretty anti feminism but this is just dumb. Neither is a good thing to say. Women are and should be free to choose if they want to do porn. It’s not on you to say if they should or should not.

TheVisualExplanation · 2021-08-11T19:56:33+00:00

Yeah I'll be straight up with you, this meme is a pretty shit take if you're trying to accurately represent ideas. Porn is empowering when not done coercively (so not as a last resort financially) because it empowers the individual by giving personal choice. Objectification isn't the main concern of feminism (sex positive feminism at least) because nonconsensual objectification is the problem. There is a difference between objectifying a pornstar in a porn video and objectifying any woman just because. There is even a difference between objectifying a pornstar within a porn video (where they have consented to objectification) and objectifying that exact same porn star when she posts about her personal life or does something unrelated to her porn.

alexaxl · 2021-08-11T14:53:40+00:00

Precisely: Don’t have better arguments, Just better at arguing. See the diff? No?

There’s a real good standup bit about it.

Men argue the point.

Women go rogue.

Think it’s Chris Rock or Burr.

Ozzy_Cortes · 2021-08-11T19:57:39+00:00

This is why you don't argue with Women.

NoMarriageNoKids · 2021-08-11T22:03:11+00:00

You don't find this to be upstanding behavior?

beff_juckley · 2021-08-16T21:48:40+00:00

Or, women can choose to do porn if they want.

smollest_bween · 2021-09-05T01:14:05+00:00

Sheesh talk about strawman 🐧

CounterEcstatic6134 · 2021-09-09T17:03:23+00:00

How about, written should be able to do what they want, as long as they're not hurting others

For_The_Watch · 2021-09-09T19:51:00+00:00

So the moral is don’t tell women what they can and can’t do and just let them choose? Idk not really that hard of a concept

Keyto3 · 2021-08-12T00:15:40+00:00

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Title	You can't win.
Author	Egalitarianwhistle
Upvotes	917
Comments	99
Date	August 10, 2021 8:23 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AntiFeminists
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/antifeminists/comments/p1xgph/you_cant_win/
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