Married 20 years. I want a new life and left to be with my gf. Wife is a good person but marriage is over. We grew apart. Now I am working with my attorney and I only want to deal with the divorce through our attorneys. We both have an attorney. My sister in law sent me an email telling me my STBX is having a mental breakdown and is hospitalized for few days to get help. I am not touching that situation, but will it look bad for me when we go to court, or a non-issue?