As the headline suggests, my STBXW today sent a long text blaming me for the kid as he woke up in the middle of the night and was not sleeping because he started sweating and she has to make him well and emotionally support him. The son is with her for the week as we have a weekly arrangement. Now I have been requesting her to get the parenting plan approved or get her to give some suggestions if required, however, she has been dragging her feet on that amongst other things including financial consent order. She was the one who filed for separation, she was the one who didn't want to reconcile despite me trying desperately and now she has the audacity of saying that I am being selfish just because i won't have let go of my share of the child custody (I won't no matter what costs are). I have told her that on legally I want 50-50 but in reality on some occassions I don't have any reservations if the kid remains with her for extra days assuming she will do the same for me when I ask. The lady seems so full of ego, that she takes no responsilbility of her actions. I have changed my behaviour since we started to live separately 2 months ago. I don't engage with her unless I talk to my kid. I am engaging with my lawyer for the CA order and get it done sooner than later. She wants to have the cake and eat it too.