Has anyone had lifetime alimony reversed/modified or terminated? Cali state here, hoping for any sign of hope. 2yrs divorced already, was married for 21yrs and she was awarded lifetime alimony (hence ex is not disabled, college degree that i helped pay for) has a part time teaching gig. Our salaries huge gap. CS ends in June, trying to figure out a game plan. I don’t want to pay her for life some BS. She already pocketed almost $450k from assets n my retirement cash out.