I’ll keep it short. However I’m curious to how you will handle this.

My dad is a racist and abused my sister and I when we’re kids and is pretty manipulative to continue on into adulthood. After multiple attempts to forgive and give another chance I have decided to remove him from my life and with that I don’t want my 5 year old son around him either.

My ex knows all about this and told her I don’t want Noah around him. Come to find out. My ex wife is going behind my back and just spending the weekend at my dads and my dad comes to visit as well. I confronted her and asked why. Basically she doesn’t care about my opinion about my family and this is a hill she’s going to die on.

Since that conversation she’s had my son see him 3-4 more times that I can confirm. I think it’s clear she’s doing it because it bothers me. She doesn’t even like him. So anyways. How would you all handle this going forward? Thanks.