without the personal information ofcourse, i find that the dearth of these things in public lead people to be bamboozled and short sighted when it comes to negotiating terms.

the text, the conditions and the reasoning behind it would be great. I find a lot of people like myself going through this, with only their lawyer to guide them, and the lawyer is being paid, can be compromised, can take the woman's side, is "obligated" to tell the judge the truth, etc etc...

that means if the female or other spouse is pulling dirty tricks, and you got an "honest" lawyer or legal aid one who doesnt give a shit and wants the case to end quickly, you are shit out of luck

I confess this is more for my own book research but i do think it would be of benefit to people who got scared at the first sign of trouble and went to reddit and other forums and stumbled through them.

I am also open to taking any and all divorce horror stories and tricks as per a zoom/skype interview , i can reference it as anonymous or by name/username or not mention a reference at all.