So for a while now I’ve been feeling shut out and it’s been eating me up inside. We’ve been married for 4 years this December and have a 3 yr old daughter. Everything I’ve done since I’ve met my wife has been for her and then when my daughter was born was for both meaning everything I sacrificed was for the better for them. I thought I was doing everything I’m supposed to do. When we met I had an awesome job in NJ great pay and benefits. When Covid came around things got bad at work and I didn’t see the job working for my family and I so we decided to pack up and move to Florida. Before moving I had cut ties with most family members due to unwanted drama and more which was for the better for my family and of course myself. We move to Fl and I apply to the same position I had in NJ and was denied because they chose another applicant. That’s when it started to get bad. I’m being blamed for not trying hard enough for the job. I’m belittled everyday for something. So seeing I wasn’t going to get that job I moved on to the next things and got a few meaningless jobs in the meantime to be able to pay bills. I get a good job again not the same as what I had but somewhat equal. The pay isn’t that great but I’m managing to get by. I’m doing everything I can to survive. I had 2-3 jobs at one point but when home became to much for her she asked me to quit to help at home so I did. While at the full time position I’ve gotten two promotions within a year and I thought I was doing pretty good. I then applied for the old job with another company. I’m still waiting to hear back. We live with her parents due to not making enough money to afford an apartment or house. I also pay a hefty chunk for my daughter’s school tuition so the money that could get us out is used there. I want the best for my child and if that means struggling then that was what I was ok with for her to get into a great school. So last night my wife tells me she’s done and she’s been feeling this way for a while. I know it’s because of money. And her family plays a big role in problems that arise not money wise but emotional or whatever else could be brought up. So she tells me to d*e at work or just plain out do it. I have no friends or family anywhere close to where I am. I sold mostly everything I have owned to consolidate space prior. I had filed for bankruptcy because of not being able to pay bills I had from previous that I was able to afford from my last job. So now debt free and not having anything to my name i don’t know what to do. I’m miserable. I hate myself. I literally have no one. She told me she wants me out. I’m writing this sitting in my truck waiting to go into work trying to keep it together but it’s tough. I didn’t even pack myself lunch this morning because of how shitty I feel I’m not even hungry. I’m 33m wife is a year younger.