We have extremely complex case regarding divorce. I don't know what to do. I also dont have a lot money to spend on lawyers. She never worked despite me asking her millions of times. All she does is spending time on the phone with her family in another country.

My wife and I are legal immigrants here in the US. Neither of us are citizens. My skills are highly sought after but that also creates havoc because I have to work 12-15 hours a day. 70-80 are common norm in my field. We have a small baby (15 month old). Things are going well and while I have been super patient and always backing off for my child, she is not.

Lately, she has become very aggressive. Occassional bumping into me, running towards me is more common now. We had a nasty fight last month where she mentioned moving back to her country. My child is a US citizen by birth.

I am trying to convince her but her parents are gaslighting her. Her whole family is gaslighting her into moving. She once attempted to work a few things out behind my back but I caught them.

I am wondring if we go through the divorce court here what happens to the baby? I dont mind keeping child and taking care of our baby for life. She is adamant on taking the baby to her country. Can I be compelled to do that and take my baby to another country or our home country?

I wonder what is the recourse here if any of you have gone through something like this?