19 years together and I discovered wife is cheating on me. I feel the affairs been going on for years with her boss. We have two teens. Wife and I are in different industries and make similar w2. I own shares in multiple companies that give me additional distributions on top of my w2. I feel humiliated, lost and betrayed. Im worried about how the kids will take it. This is the second time. She admitted she cheated on me while we were dating. I’m ok to split the money in retirement and bank account with her. Should I sell my company shares to my partner or sibilings or my parents? I don’t want to loss to her with my companies.

I believe we had a loving relationship. There is no fights or arguments. Family dynamics and vacations are extrodinsry. There is no abuse or toxicity in the house.

How do I navigate?