So, I am considering leaving... Things have been difficult for me (26M) & my wife (27F) for awhile now & I don't see an end in sight. We have been together now for 7 years & married just about 3. There have been issues almost our whole relationship & I figured that they would just get better over time. We talk about it & then the next day its just back to business as usual. She struggles to think about anyone but herself & treats me like I am her servant. It's exhausting as I work to make good money for the both of us & I have to travel for work too occasionally. I don't get much time for myself & when I do, I always have to cater to her needs. We don't have kids but we have combined finances & the house is her families. Yes we own it, but its a generational home & I guaranteed that if we bought it & something did happen, she could keep it. I am just struggling mentally with the idea of actually leaving & just starting over but I am just tired... I am sick of carrying the mental load of work & at home. She doesn't really treat me the best either, like sure she does buy things for me & all that & I am sure she cares. But, she also does occasionally hit when she gets mad or frustrated & it's incredibly difficult to talk to her sometimes. I just am unsure on what to do or where to go. Like I said, we have been talking a lot about the issues going on & she seems to be a little bit better with it all after I laid out how I felt & I was not happy with our marriage it just feels like a stab in the back because why couldn't she listen to me the other 100 times I brought it up before it got this far....