Deleting chat

lemmingsrevenge · 2021-03-23T23:04:13+00:00

Because by deleting if you're finally accepting that it's over and there is no going back. You're stuck in the what if game. I'd tell you to just delete it and move on, but each person processes the grief of a loss differently.

Band aid buddy, it stings at first, but it goes away. Not pulling the band aid off just delays the inevitable....and pretty soon it stinks.

WartimeDad · 2021-03-24T05:30:57+00:00

Delete that shit.

MartyMcFly7 · 2021-03-23T23:05:07+00:00

You don't have to delete them, but you probably shouldn't look at them (unless you're in a good place... and if you were... you probably wouldn't want to look at them). You can't detach if you keep looking back.

Boring_Cancel · 2021-03-26T05:20:08+00:00

I think you know deep down the answer to your own question bro. It’s like a druggie keeping his old needle around or something. To remanence about the old times, cuz it was part of you (whether good or bad).

BUT

For us to become the person we want to become in the future. Sometimes we have to cut off all the strings from the past that are holding us from moving down the road to recovery and true happiness. Take a day or so. Allow your feelings to come through. Be true to yourself as to why you still have them. Then say will keeping these around stop me from being able to 100% move on with my life? If so delete it.

My exes pictures, clothes she bought me, gifts, etc. are all gone. Her phone number and email deleted out Of my address book (along with her family). It was hard cause it feels like your letting a piece of you go. But I had to let the piece go so I could keep walking to find a new piece to replace it.

Hope this helps brother. Much love

dday_throwaway3 · 2021-03-24T09:42:35+00:00

You're still allowing her to rent space in your head. It's time to evict her.

SupaFlyslammajammazz · 2021-03-24T20:46:37+00:00

Is there an consequence if you don’t delete it? Doesn’t hurt you to have it if you feel you’ve already moved on.

Title	Deleting chat
Author	sajid94
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	March 23, 2021 10:55 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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