Today I sat down, calmly, with my soon-to-be (cheater) ex. We used onlinedivorce.com and took about 4 hours to file. I calmly pointed out all the logistics of what I own, we own. Had a table made to help her see the asset split, and told her I am willing to give her 2 lump sum payments (only $9k total) to get this over with, but I would hire a lawyer and spend ALL our money to do an AT FAULT divorce if she asked for alimony. She tried asking for it for 6 months at 20% and I said no.

I said I will make sure I hire a lawyer that uses all the money or I'll do what my own brother did and become homeless to make sure she gets nothing. Thanks to my brother, she didn't doubt me.

Did I just win big? If I am unemployed (just got back from mil deployment) but may have a good job starting very soon. The final decision on Friday from them.

If this is a huge win which I think it is. This is the way to win. There MUST be MORE men willing to go 100% OFF GRID / homeless to avoid all alimony. Fuck the system, fuck being slaves to cheating sluts. They deserve to be on the streets, not the loyal men that are fucking human beings, not slaves because we have dicks and balls.

(Don't waste your time pointing out "not all women" I realize this obviously and I am talking about the now very large number of cheating sluts that is real and growing) Slut Culture, unlike the rape culture myth, is real, and it needs to be checked. NOW. This is a movement, that could save untold numbers of GOOD virtuous men.