We have been seperated for a year now and we are starting the proceedings for a dissolution of marriage.

It wasn't because of anything bad, just that the flame went out. Completely.

But still, I feel sad, Lonely even sometimes, and out of focus. I'm in a relationship with someone else and things are great, but sometimes it still hits me. Usually when I am alone.

I'm not going to say the cliche "Am I the only one who feels this." But to those of you out there, how do you manage this feeling?