How do you always be the bigger person? Through words and or actions how do u control that hurt that lashes out as anger? How do you become numb on the outside regardless of what’s inside, 25 year old father of 4 just beginning the ending of a 7 year marriage 10 year relationship all I want is for my kids to just not see me angry and so hate filled with there mom but damn that line between aggressive and weak is about as thin as the line between love and hate. I was raised by a single father of 3 absent baby moms I wasn’t tought these things but I’m going to…… she’s not gunna hold my heart in a chokehold cuz my Kids won’t think this is ok or that this is love. So what can I practice or change?