Has anyone here been battling not just your ex but her family as well.

Without sounding paranoid, her sister despises me, there is a long history of her making cutting remarks and getting her nose into aspects of our life that she had no right to.

Anyway the STBXW has taken to the hostility and horribleness with gusto aided and abetted by her nasty sister. False DV, alienation and financial abuse are amongst some of the tactics.

Her sister has chosen the lawyer, is writing her emails to me and is paying for the divorce.

This divorce will destroy me financially, it has had a devastating impact on our children. I imagine the sister is delirious with the course this is taking.

Another aspect of this I’m really struggling with is the intimate aspects of my life and finances being put on display for everyone, her family, her legal team even my legal team. It’s all so hideous.