My wife and I have been separated and living apart for almost two years. Just resentment and dissatisfaction from both of us during the last couple years of our relationship. We had a kid and things were great while she was pregnant, but bad again after. Terrible communication with each other. We've been doing good at co-parenting but not communicating much else. We'd tried therapy early on to no benefit. I've been wanting to ask for a divorce for a year and a half, but just let it slide, and slide, and slide. Today, I asked that we get the divorce over with. She showed no emotion. I had been sweating it for 1 1/2 years, and it just rolled off her back. I kind of expected it, but it still hurts. I hope we can stay friendly during the divorce, but I am preparing myself for ugliness in case it happens. She makes considerably more than I do, and we have 2 years of co-parenting 50-50, so I have that going for me. Just sharing here because this sub has been helpful for me.