Heart breaking...

On_ur_left · 2018-01-17T03:52:23+00:00

It is completely heartbreaking. I can't imagine it either. My youngest gives me kisses or just comes over to give me a hug and says I love you. My wife has been pushing me away for years. It's a woman's world and unfortunately my wife assumed control early on. She has run the show for years and gets whatever she wants. Started threatening divorce early on for insignificant things. It's mind boggling that a mother would first if all, think that the kids come before their spouse (which I completely disagree with) and meanwhile screw them by divorcing their father and provider.

It's insanity out there! Buckle up and just be as good a father as you can. It's out of our hands. I have made plans to be a healthier, happier person, capable mentally and physically dealing with the next stage of parenthood. It's my wife's world, and the system obliges. It's really sad for healthy father and child relationships.

MNCPA · 2018-01-18T00:10:09+00:00

(((Hugs))). Here is what I try to do, maybe it is helpful. I tell my kids to keep being great kids and that Mommy and Daddy love them very much. This is a issue between Mommy and Daddy, that we will figure out.

sleeze02 · 2018-01-17T02:49:59+00:00

The daughter or your soon to be ex?

notadadanymore · 2018-01-19T04:40:21+00:00

Yep this is always been my thinking. What gives a child the most emotional stability two parents that are in a stable loving relationship. What gives a child the most Financial stability two parents in a stable loving relationship. The list can go on and on children immediately and directly benefit when the husband and wife relationship is the primary and most important one in the family. The in-laws also benefit. Think about it if the husband and wife were stable loving and committed there's often no need as an in-law to fear about there grandchildren's future emotionally or financially. Allowing the in-laws to fully enjoy all of their own Financial incomes rather than need to share it supporting their grandchildren. If more in-laws laws realize this they would support encourage and avoid causing conflicts and once in awhile step back and shut the fuk up for the benefit of their grandchildren and their own wallet.

Title	Heart breaking...
Author	throwaway_01123a
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	January 17, 2018 1:27 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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