How does wife feel?

Technical-Jelly3466 · 2024-06-03T11:51:15+00:00

The best answer to that question is “I don’t care.” It may take a while to get there but how she feels is nothing you can control and nothing that should concern you. Sounds like at most you 2 should be to each other is Co-parents.

Strict-Front-2375 · 2024-06-02T14:38:11+00:00

She thinks you're disgusting and has no respect for you. She may also think your an abusive controlling ass hole. (It doesn't matter how far fetched that is)

It's a necessary mindset to convince themselves of to justify ending a marriage for new dick.

You shouldn't care what they think at all, as it's literally worthless and untethered from reality.

NorthUsername · 2024-06-02T10:24:33+00:00

I secretly wonder a lot about this too. Probably a bit sad but feeling like it's the right thing to do. But realistically how does it matter if she is the one who left?

stupididiot78 · 2024-06-02T08:02:48+00:00

It doesn't matter what she thinks anymore. You're not going to be any more or less divorced if she feels one way or another. Your days of worrying about her thoughts and feelings are gone. If she cared half as much about you as you did her then you wouldn't be where you are now. Take all those thoughts and worries about her put them into yourself. She's not going to.......

Hunkaflesh13 · 2024-06-02T05:57:50+00:00

I feel you. Been and sometimes, despite everything, still am in the same boat.

Unless she tells you, there's no way to know how she feels.

Read through this subreddit and you'll see this feeling is rather common. Lots of guys here, if not most, who loved their partners, and those partners just stopped loving back, sometimes for no discernable reason. At least not one that makes any sense.

Unrequited love. It's a nasty thing, and until you dig out of it and move on, all you'll do is spin your wheels.

Work on yourself and follow the advice on this subreddit. It will get better, I promise.

Title	How does wife feel?
Author	CountryLower3165
Upvotes	5
Comments	6
Date	May 31, 2024 8:00 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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