How it all started...

Il_Valentino · 2026-04-19T15:33:09+00:00

living proof that divorce isn't the worst outcome

Shineynewflipflops · 2026-04-19T14:46:50+00:00

What I found interesting was how I just slid into this peacekeeping mode. What I also found interesting (post divorce) was the uglier I got, the nicer and more understanding and submissive she became.

BloodstainedBearRug · 2026-04-19T14:19:56+00:00

Yup. It was years here. The worst part was I was just agreeing to everything. She’d say “want to do x this weekend?” What she really meant was “if you say no, no matter how it’s said, it’s going to be a fight about you not wanting to do anything.” For some reason as we’re still in the same house it still continues. She pretty much dictates what’s going on with our kid and I just let it happen like a little bitch. I can’t wait to get out.

TeddyPSmith · 2026-04-19T14:18:57+00:00

My ex had to have everything her way. Just unbelievably selfish and no humility. It’s weird that I am only able to really see it clearly now

Coffeecankicker · 2026-04-19T13:59:32+00:00

I didn’t start getting these types of video shorts until AFTER I filed. Now that I see them, I feel horrible for those men. I feel horrible for myself because I endured that type of behavior for far too long.

Title	How it all started...
Author	Scubadrew
Upvotes	5
Comments	6
Date	April 19, 2026 1:44 PM UTC (3 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/1sptdri/how_it_all_started/
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