I'm probably getting annoying but I'm lonely and don't have anyone who can relate. Two weeks ago she asked for space. She's not really talking to me but has never actually said the 'D' word or mention official separation. Our living situation is tense and I want to leave but my kids are here. I want to be with her and told her she has a choice on coming with me or not when I leave. We've been wanting to buy a house That was three days ago. We've been in separate beds and the kids are getting curious. I'm sure I deserve to know the exact position of our relationship but I don't want to come across as pushy. I've seen horror stories on here of wives dragging this shit out months or even years. So what is a reasonable amount of time to let her decide?

Edit: we broke up on e early in our relationship when not married. She's exhibiting a lot of the same behaviors and came back to me last time. She's stubborn, I think she knows she's better off with me, but doesn't want to accept she may be wrong. I just don't want to sit around while she finds herself.