Bros,

Thankful for this fn awesome group. I officially got 50/50 custoday after divorce. My oldest daughter (2 kids total) decided to live with me 2 years ago. Oldest has hit the teen years and let's just say i've been getting a little disrespect lately (with consequences). I have had zero break from kids (other is still 50%). I asked ex wife for some assistance. She agreed in front of me. So, i proposed she take my oldest so i could get a break and to show my oldest that rules apply no matter where she lives. So, my ex sent me some long ass text about how if she is going to take on oldest (even temporarily) she is going to court for full custody. Also got a barage of 'it's my fault' and she's 'just like me'.

I told her 2 years ago i was going to officially request full custody through the court. She blew a fn gasket and i never followed through. Anyway, i essentially responded this morning saying that i will just keep oldest 100% and 50% with youngest. I also said i would modify the custody agreement. I like the honesty of this group, even when i'm fn wrong. Any suggestions on how to proceed? I get it. Do what's best for the kids, but it does not always seem that easy. My oldest absolutely does not want to go to ex wife's, even to visit. I took her out of school to the PGA president's cup because she refused to go to her mom's. Thx men.