Me and wife have been married for almost 4 years, we have a 2 year old daughter together. About a year ago my wife opened up our marriage because I wasn’t giving her what she needed mentally and physically, she said she wanted to stay married while we both go through counseling to try and fix our marriage. Since the marriage has been open I had to move away to another state for work, our daughter stayed with her. She has been seeing the same guy for almost a year now. I visit and FaceTime when I can but I no longer feel like trying to be with her because this other guy is almost always there, helping out buying things. We both know he wants to take my place. I am debating on divorce but I am scared of what will happen to my relationship with my daughter and how things might turn out. So far we have never yelled at each other, we have always talked things out, but this is something I don’t think we can talk through. I just need some outside input to figure out what to do.