So my ex’s boyfriend that was previously living with her and left, appears to have moved back in. Which is frustrating, but I’ve accepted that the court will not actually do anything if they find her in contempt.

What is more concerning is my child(3) was telling me what they had done at Mommy’s house the night before and listed everyone by name except said boyfriend who was listed as “somebody else”. I said who, and my three year old told me they couldn’t tell me.

This is a major red flag to me, I’m not sure if my ex gave instructions to lie or what, but that in itself makes me wonder if I should pursue the contempt just to have it documented in case something happens in the future…