First I wanted to ask if I could post in this sub. I made a throw away account for my divorce concerns, but before I get into it all, I'm a female sole provider, no kids. I'm active duty military and husband is a dead beat. I feel like I relate more to men in this circumstance as I can see my dependapotomus stbx getting vindictive as I start to file. Please let me know if I am kindly not welcome. I would understand the need for a boys club if that is what this sub is for.