Still going through it, could use some words of encouragement to move past this healthily.

Gattsama · 2023-06-01T15:16:35+00:00

Once you start to remove the rose colored glasses, stop the delusion of seeing your partner for the construct you have in your mind; and start to actually see them and judge them by their actions; it can be very freeing. In my case, during the separation / divorce the eX showed just how petty, stupid, indictive and lying she could be.

Every time she did something fucked up, it helped open my eyes and kill a little bit of the guilt and self doubt I had. In the end, she tried to black mail about the house sale. And I'm glad that happened. The drama selling out house helped kill my last bit of worry about it or concern. We still sold the house (and I did ultimately have to bribe her to do it). But it was a parting gift; because now she is completely dead to me (I still have healing to do, but I don't care what happens to her at all any more. She got a few thousand dollars more but lost me).

Glad you are waking up to the truth, as much as it might suck. You know what you have to do, so make your plans, work your plans and then execute.

pk2at · 2023-06-01T16:08:19+00:00

Given that you are likely to battle an ultra feminist system designed to loot you during divorce, you should prepare financially for a while, see if you can get her to sign on legal separation forms by stealth and strike when she is emotionally weak

Title	Still going through it, could use some words of encouragement to move past this healthily.
Author	Kenny_Power55
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	June 1, 2023 1:33 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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