So I had my first court date to establish temporary orders on 9/7 and the opposing attorney was supposed to send updates to us, which he did on 9/11. We turned our redlines around on 9/13 but now I just got notice that my wife is changing her lawyer which potentially throws all of this off again.

I don't have a reason for her changing lawyers but does that look bad on her to do that so quickly? Her previous one seemed competent. She's been jerking me around on visitation and custody and the longer the TO takes to actually get finalized and signed the by the judge, the longer she has any perceived power to do so.