I feel like things that I'm doing spiritually, physically and mentally are all starting to really help me.

I've been feeling a little better lately so I'm scared that I'm going to go backwards for some reason.

I simply cannot live in that terrible place grieving all the time.

At some point I just realized that what I'm dealing with is her hard-heartedness, unforgiveness and mental illness.

There is absolutely nothing I can do about that.

My counselor has shown me this and other people have given me advice that is similar.

In some ways I absolutely feel that even God has showed me that that door is closed.

I guess I just want to encourage people on here that you cannot control how someone else feels or behaves.

If they have a certain mindset it really doesn't matter what you do.... every single word or action is going to be translated through that dysfunctional filter.

Stop wasting your time trying to fix something you can't fix.