Thinking about ending it, need some advice.

James1933-75 · 2022-08-08T13:21:06+00:00

Has she been evaluated by a professional? Was she always like this, or did this start after the birth?

Fun-Possible7676 · 2022-08-08T15:23:30+00:00

I don't know about UK law but in California if you file first you get the residence temporarily until the hearing. Without a professional evaluation it's unlikely her mental state will make you the main custodial parent. Divorcing couples will say anything so your word is not useful in family court.

Now you haven't given alot of info but it seems you should try to get her some therapy before taking the divorce dive. A new born baby is a huge stressor and nobody is their true self under that much stress. If she refuses therapy then maybe consider divorce.

pk2at · 2022-08-08T17:02:41+00:00

You should divorce ASAP, its a short term marriage with less financial cost to you. Custody issue can be handled separately

S4z3r4c · 2022-08-08T21:47:59+00:00

Dude...are you in a 2 year fixed term?

Title	Thinking about ending it, need some advice.
Author	Far-Conference369
Upvotes	4
Comments	10
Date	August 8, 2022 12:07 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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