I’m most likely getting divorced soon. She wants a baby and I don’t.

“But why didn’t you talk about kids before you got married?” We did. She changed her mind when she turned 38. We tried desperately to make it work anyway for nearly two years. It didn’t work. We fight all the time over nothing. It’s heartbreaking because we both agreed our relationship was great before her feelings changed. After our most recent fight, it became obvious that I need to divorce her.

It sucks but it’s for the best for both of us, and now I’m looking ahead to the next year for healing/rebuilding my life. I’m pretty fit and active but I don’t have many friends. I’m thinking about moving out of the city, too. Any tips for staying resilient during this difficult time? Thank you!