When do you have to talk about exclusivity?

dday_throwaway3 · 2026-02-28T20:15:13+00:00

Her: What are you looking for?

Me: I'm just dating.

That's the extent of the conversation. I don't care if she considers me an asshole if I continue to date. If you care, then you need to work on yourself because you still have a scarcity mindset. She's one of a million not one in a million.

HistoricalRich280 · 2026-02-26T23:52:09+00:00

Hey ! This group is about escaping exclusivity, not getting back in it!

What I remember from dating 20 or more years ago. If you are sleeping together and enjoy company, would like things to go further, would be a good idea to check in before you go on an official date or sleep w someone else.

Acceptable_Piano4809 · 2026-02-26T22:23:01+00:00

Wrong place to be asking buddy. This isn’t dating over 30

Immediate-Story2562 · 2026-02-26T22:02:34+00:00

You actually never have to unless one or both of you wants it.
But be prepared that it will usually come up so either be upfront about what you want out of the relationship at the start or be prepared to face the conversations with honesty.

Title	When do you have to talk about exclusivity?
Author	gratefulstudent76
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	February 26, 2026 9:43 PM UTC (5 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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